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About Me & My Writing

This part of the About Me section of my homepage covers my writing, the how's, whys and what's, that I am often asked about when people contact me. Of particular note though, is the section on what I will NOT write about, and you should read that before attempting to contact me.

Why write this page? Well, in part because some people are interested, they must be, because I get emails and IM's all the time asking me about this stuff. However, I hope in some way that what I write here, will inspire others to attempt to write as well, even if its just simple short stories.

When I started Writing

I am not too sure, I know have always used my imagination to make up stories, from as far back as I can remember, but I think I first tried to write them as fiction as a teenager, somewhere around the age of 14.

However, I didn't start to write effectively until I got my first PC, because being dyslexic, writing anything was a struggle, and the cause of considerable frustration. My my first efforts initially took the form of cyber sex chats in message rooms and instant messaging, and then erotic emails, which evolved into short stories. My first attempts at publishing on the web came in 2003, followed by a long break due to ill health, and then a more determined effort from 2005.

A common question I get asked, is how do I write so well (referring to my imaginative plots and strong characters), and the answer is I don't really know, other than to repeat what I wrote above, my imagination as always been important to me, and I have always wanted to express it, through drawing and painting, and later in life, through writing.

Why I Write

Firstly, because I enjoy writing, secondly I want to write professionally, and to fulfil that ambition, I need to practice and develop my writing skills to match my imagination. At the end of the day, you can pay somebody to correct spelling and grammar mistakes, technically correct writing is a skill that can either be learnt or bought, but writing imaginatively is an art. After all, practice makes perfect. I am Dyslexic, so expressing myself in writing as always been a challenge and frustrating, however I do think I have come a long way.

Thirdly, I do love it when I hear from a women, telling me how hot a story made her, more so when she gets down to details LOL. Of course this also helps me to develop and improve my work, because being male, I do rely on insider information to know that I am hitting the right spot. It gives me a deep sense of satisfaction knowing that I am sexually exciting thousands of women and helping them reach sexual satisfaction.

Who I write for?

In the main, I am writing for female readers, and often write from a female perspective. I must be quite good at it, because most people assume that I am a woman, both men and women. I suppose that I am a bit of feminist, so perhaps that helps.

However, I am quite an introspective and empathetic person by nature, and this also helps, as it allows me to look at things from perspectives other than my own. In addition, unlike many people who write erotic fiction I am not writing to promote my own exclusive fantasies or fetish, but to please and satisfy my reader. I aim to provide something that he or she will enjoy and which will enhance their masturbation experience.

On the whole, men are more simple to satisfy, both in real terms and in fiction. Satisfying and giving pleasure to a women is far more complicated goal and presents more of a challenge, because what works for one, as a limited or no effect on another.

I am in no way an expert on women, I do not assume that I know everything about women or know "What women really want", but I treat each women I meet, either in the flesh or online as unique person, and that's the fun of meeting a new lady. Finding out about what interests her, what turns her on or off, and then taking that and turning it into a story.

What I Write About

Outside of the limits listed below, I will pretty much write about anything, and I am always adding new ideas and themes to my story list. I love chatting to my Female readers, because this is a fertile source of ideas and inspiration, and I need to know what does and does not hit the button.

In the main, I am writing for a female and not a male readership, so I write things that I think women will like to read, or what they tell me they like to read. That said, I do have gay stories in the pipeline, and most of my male characters are bisexual or gay, mind, most of my female characters are bisexual or gay/lesbian too.

I am always open to suggestions, but tend to avoid getting involved in detailed and complex fantasies, because I do not have the time to work closely on, for example a Star Trek based fantasy where detailed background knowledge is require. A good example is the House and House 2, which was inspired by a women who gave me a basic out line of her fantasy, and I asked question to get a feel for what she was looking for, and importantly, what she didn't want.

It is important to be willing to talk, and ask and answer questions, too many people message me or email me, and expect me to write them something tailored to there needs, but are unwilling to share the inner most desires.

What I won't write about!!

I have included this because I often get requests, which is great, but there are specific subjects I will not have anything to do with, and you should not contact me if you are interested in any of the following.

I WILL NOT write about CHILDREN or CHILD ABUSE. For this purpose, none of my characters are 16 or under. Most, if not all, are 18 and over. Where they are younger (Not under 16), it is to fit in with the historical period of a story. If you are interested in CHILD ABUSE, please, you should consider seeking advise and professional help before you harm somebody or yourself.

If I describe them as young, that indicates YOUNG LOOKING, that is their APPEARANCE, and not their actual AGE, or Age relative to an older person, or they are role playing a younger person, i.e. a wife being a school girl etc. But in cases, the characters in my stories are ADULTS. Whatever you personal view is, the fact remains that majority of western society see CHILD ABUSE as wrong, and that anybody who shows an interest in CHILD ABUSE in what ever form, is either a CHILD ABUSER or a POTENTIAL ABUSER. This not an invitation to debate this issue, what you do is your concern.

I will not write about impregnation, forced or otherwise or anything like that. Or scat...yuuuuukkk.

I will not write about Excessive violence to women involving disfigurement, death and real torture for sexual gratification. However I may occasionally let this happen to a male characters.

I have put this here because I often get request from people, and this avoids misunderstandings and time wasting. In addition, I have no wish to be implicated or linked to CHILD ABUSE in any form or manner, if you contact me about CHILD ABUSE I will take steps to report it, so please, don't.

THIS IS NOT AN INVITATION TO DEBATE OR DISCUSS THE ABOVE, RESPECT MY CHOICE NOT WRITE ABOUT THEM

CONTACTING ME

Please read the About Me Page, and the FAQ PAGE before contacting me. If you decide you still want to email me, please indicate your age and gender, and tell me a little bit about why you are emailing me. If you are sending me an instant message, please don't just add me, as I will place you on my ignore list; at the very least you should tell me you age and gender and why you want to chat. Too many people send add requests which I accept and then they either never chat, or just don't want to have a conversation. If you are a child, do NOT message me, if I suspect you are a child I will place you on my ignore list. Be polite and treat me with respect and I will treat you the same way.

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All stories and Illustrations are original to the author "Shyblueeyes1968, aka Shyblueeyes, blueeyesandy. I am the sole owner of the copyright and have been writing under the penname Shyblueeyes1968 since 2007. Please do not copy or reproduce them or place them on any other sites, without permission or without linking back to this homepage address: http://www1.asstr.org/~shyblueeyes1968/ . I do NOT in any way, give permission for my stories to be used on any form of PAYSITE or Subscription Site.