****** Pet Lovers Forum Stories ****** =============================================================================== Whinny's Stories Me and my mare Jasou Hi. Well, I just found this site by following some links. I wondered if this is a serious site, but it seems to be at least. I am sad that so many idiots are spamming this board and I wonder how long this will be up, or how long it is available. Oki, back to me. Maybe some of you still know me under the handle "Whinny" from several talkers. I have left them for several reasons. One of them is, that people there started to ask me, directly after my login, how many mares I had last night, or if I use a bucket or a chair. Sorry guys, I really hated this sort of talk. Two months ago I have made my dream come true and I have bought my beloved mare "Jasou". She used to be a school horse. She did change very much in my hands and became a calm and nice horse, though she used to be very jumpy in all school-lessons before. Now she has her own place and since she is a rather small horse, only 1.60m in high, this place is big for her. I am incredible happy for her and if she feels well, I feel good too. I am trying hard to give her every comfort she needs. We have gone for long rides through the forest and though she was a bit twitchy at the beginning she did steady very quickly and is now very calm outside. I love her more than everything else in this world, even more than myself. This may sound funny, even stupid to someone that don't understand me. There is a bond between us that is stronger than any feeling I have imagined before. There is really more than just some single quick nights, like so many people are doing. That is why I am so sad about the fact that many of the persons around really don't care what the feelings of their animal partners are. They just hope to get away well. I don't understand that, because there is MUCH MUCH more in a relationship. More than many can imagine I think, because so many haven't really experienced a feeling like this, or maybe many don't want more ? Oki, well. This is getting too sad at all. Just wanted to post my opinion here. Am I wrong in having such feelings ? Why the hell is the mankind treating the animals like that ? :( There are questions that can't be answered easily. But why should I be sad at all. I "own" (I hate the word OWN) my love and you can be sure she has a really good time with me. Just let the others do what they want was often my thought. Maybe I that is the easiest way to forget about these idiots that treat their animals like objects. Hey, now don't misunderstand me. I don't say this part of a relationship with an animals is bad, but it is only ONE part of the relationship and surely not the whole relationship. =============================================================================== More about me and my mare Jasou At first thank you for your replies. I really wanted to hear a little bit about this theme. And, yes, I am very well aware that horses are not in any way monogamous. But it is still a difference. Let me explain. A stallion is living with a herd of several mares and he is most likely longing to get them pregnant as many times as possible. But he won't leave after having sex with them. He will of course stay in the herd and try to keep them secure from rivals and so on and so on, until another stallion drives him out of the herd. But until this happens he is there. What I want to point out is. That I really don't have anything against people that are having "quickies", as long as they respect and take care of the horses they have "around" them :) I have talked with some people that said they have another pen each time, never wanting to go back to the same. Well, that's not very "nice" in my eyes. Horses have other needs then sex too, or ? And just to say: "Hey, I gave them the needed sex-part, let someone else give them the cuddles" is that ok ? REPLY--- I think in any case... treating the mare with love and REPLY--- kindness and respect for her nature is the best thing. This sentence describes what I have said above. Never ever I would only think about myself only when being together with her. And when she is not in "heat" I will not make much advances toward her in any way. When she "winked" at me the first time, I thought I would die of happiness. I was really overwhelmed by this feeling. She did decide the time to intensify our relationship to say that way and it seems she accepted me the way I am and accepted me as a member of the "herd", even as the stallion. Normally horses don't show much signs of sexual arousal to humans, and that is why I was so very overwhelmed by her reaction. Isn't it a good feeling too, when you just sit beside the horses and just watch them. Or when you start scratching the neck of one and the horse bends over and starts grooming at your neck, back and hairs too ? It is wonderful to be involved in their actions. Yesterday for example, I was at the stables. And I did lead Jasou to the riding hall on a long rope. She did follow me freely, I never pulled at the rope, it was always hanging down in an arc. When we arrived in the riding hall, only two riders where in it, and they had nothing against me entering and leading or playing around with Jasou a bit. So I walked in and in circles in the hall. She did again follow me. When I started to run, she did start to trot behind me freely. We both ran around the hall a bit and when I stopped, she did not hesitate to stop too. I then put up some bars on the ground and walked over them. At first she did not want to follow me over them. When I put the bars in a bit more distance to each other however, she did follow me over them. I could really feel how proud she was of herself and how brave she felt for walking about this "dangerous" bars :) We did then the same in trot. The first time we did jump over the bars exactly the same time, but she did not hesitate anymore. I then even removed the rope from her entirely and she still followed me freely and jumped over the bars with me easily. Of course I was rewarding her with words and pets several times. Well this was only a short story as an example what you can do with them being not "intimate" the whole time. As I said there are millions of things you can do, just let your imagination play. Horses like games too and you will wonder how they develop and how happy they become if you play with them. Oki doki ... that's it for now ... PS: Sure sure ... ignore the people on the talkers or just leave the talkers at all. I wondered a bit what I would do there now, that I have found my love IRL ... =============================================================================== Back again So, after some nice weeks of vacation I am back. And of course I was happy to see some replies on my post at the 23th of December. You are certainly right. I really don't have anything against one night stands. Maybe it was my fault, maybe I did not explain it right. The only thing I wanted to make clear that the topmost thing in the mind should always be the feelings of the partner and not the own feelings. I often had a more intimate contact with my mare without myself having any "profit" at all in the eyes of many ppl. But when I see that she is pleasured by my actions, that is the most reward, or the most confirmation of my actions at all. What can be more confirming than this, tell me ? But surely you can't deny that there are also ppl. out there that don't even have a look at this matter of fact. And I know that horses are a really tolerate kind. I for instance got to know a guy that said he was visiting pens in the night, and the mares did follow him and liked his treatment, but if he would return the next night, most things would be different and the horses won't act the same way. Strange ? Not in my eyes. He just did not, well, act right in the eyes of this horses. You see, it is also possible to have a look at his own feelings and needs only. But it never ever should be like that and this is what made me sad. I really have nothing against one night stands IF both of it enjoy it. And when I mean both, I mean both and not only both in the opinion of the human-part :) I even expect most ppl. on the talkers and on other places to have never seen a horse irl. If they start talking about sex and then know no answer to WHAT COLOR the horse had, than it is pretty visible ;) Well, to see the horses in other eyes, you have to give up some part of your "humanity" I think. I even go that far that I wished to be a horse myself with all my heart. Trapped in a human body you could say, or at least that would explain a bit how I feel. Of course I am happy, and life could be worse. I am living happy with my mare, got enough spare time to be with her and go for long rides through the forest. When she is in heat I spend wonderful lovely evenings with her, and she gives me back this treatment a million times. In trust in love. The ppl. around me are blind if they don't see the relationship between us. HE HE HE ... One day when I returned from the vacation of some weeks, I was sitting beside her in her box and suddenly she rested herself beside me and put her head in my lap and started whinnying ;) WOW ... At this day ppl. did see me lying beside her, one of her hooves going straight through my T-shirt and out the other side. I was spending a long time with her this day and did not care at all about the persons around me who watched me curiously... Oki guys ... Thanks to all for the replies. They help to get other points of view. =============================================================================== Just for the ones of you who have no idea who I am, or who "Jasou" is ... Well, I am just a real horselover and "Jasou" is my mare. The one that makes worth my life. I say, I don't own her, I am but her humble servant :) And ... I she is more for me than anything in the world, even more than I am to myself ... I would die for her without a word ... Oki, that's about it ... here the little story ... Though Jasou is not pregnant, she gives a bit of milk. Don't ask me how I found that out *SMILE*, but can you imagine my face as I was suddenly tasting horse- milk? Oh well, she really enjoys this a lot, and keeps standing with her head low, closed eyes and completely relaxed. When she is running around in the riding hall, how would you guess I stopped her? When she advanced quickly, I just put one hand at her under-belly and she instantly stopped and took a deep look at me. I know what she was expecting me to do, but I did not dare to knee down beside her in the riding hall :) ... In the box, when I am beside her, she stops eating and again relaxes. As I was standing beside her then, for some time, just with my head at her shoulder, she also started dozing. I then sat down in the straw beside her, and relaxed myself too. When another person arrived from the outside and took a look inside her box where I was lying too. Suddenly Jasou jumped forward and looked very angry at the watching person. She even started kicking against the walls. When the person left again, she came over to me, gave me a nip and returned to doze. This was a very very beautiful moment for me because she showed me her affections with this little actions. Again, I did not want to leave. But as it went later and later I had to, or certain ppl. would have missed me. I left her box at around 23.00 in the night and gave her a big big kiss before I left. Well, what can I say, I just wanted to show, that smooching can be as wonderful and fulfilling as any part of the relationship. When I leave her, my heart is ripped apart, and I just want to spend the hours somehow, just to get to her again. I wonder if this sort of message is wrong at this place perhaps. It seems almost everyone here discusses only one part of the relationship. Well ... *SHRUGS* Oki ...