****** The Why, When and How of Father/Daughter Sex ******
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The Why, When and How of Father/Daughter Sex

Please Note!!!!!!!!

This is a work of fantasy! It is not to be interpreted as condoning, inciting,
or in anyway urging inappropriate relationships among family, especially not
fathers and daughters. If you have issues that don't allow you to distinguish
between incest fantasy and the reality of sexual abuse, please seek help ASAP!
That being said, enjoy.

Foreword

Father/daughter incest goes back to ancient culture. The pharaohs of Egypt,
believing themselves God, felt the only person worthy of sexual interest and
baring the royal children was a Royal Child. Hence there was not only father/
daughter sex going on, but also brother/sister and mother/son. Other cultures
practiced incest as well with the intention of keeping the family lines pure.

Due to the influence of Judeo-Christian piety the open practice of incest has
long since gone by the wayside in Western Civilization. Note the operative
term, "Open Practice." Although there is as much or more incest going on today
as in ancient times, modern practitioners must find their own way in uncertain
territory.
The wisdom and advice that safely guides us through almost every other activity
in society, is conspicuously absent in this area.

Incest is not limited to fathers and daughters and no one piece of writing
could hope to cover the various combinations adequately. While some of this
offering could be adapted to brother/sister, mother/son and so on, it focuses
on the unique and special needs of fathers and daughters, particularly when the
daughter is a young virgin.

Therefore, this writer humbly attempts to offer a philosophy and procedure to
help those Fathers wishing to expand the relationships with their daughters
beyond the horizon of accepted cultural norm and have those relationships be
positive.

1. Why

Sexual relationships demand much of us. There are emotional, psychological, and
physical elements that work together to make sex positive or abusive. Children
are becoming sexually aware, inquisitive and active at earlier ages than ever
before. This is due mostly to the loosening of some of the constraints set on
western culture by Judeo-Christian piety. Sex is everywhere and children are
not as naive as they once were. It is up to parents to temper their children's
exposure, to create an open and healthy environment to discuss sexual matters,
to develop trust and especially to love their children so that sex is a gift
they give receive and in turn give to others in the future.

The emotional, psychological and physical elements of sex are compounded in
father/daughter relationships. For most young girls, "Daddy" is the center or
the world. He protects and provides. He does this out of love and since of
honor. He is the girl's first image of what it means to be a man. Most women,
upon examination, marry a man who is like their father. If a father is a proper
protector and provider, his daughter will naturally accept his role as lover
and teacher when the time comes. This is because she knows her father loves
her, and she loves him too.

Psychologically, sex can be a very esteem building activity for anyone, but
especially for the young girl trying to find her way in a grown up world. To
know that she is loved and to know that her body, at what ever stage of
development, is desired by the man she loves most, and to know that she is
considered "mature" enough to become sexually active all contribute to make a
rather difficult time much easier for a girl. While boys may still be "icky"
Daddy, a grown man, will never have that title in the eyes of a loving and
loved daughter. She will grow up to feel she can do anything.

Physically, there are many issues to consider. The body of a mature man,
father, and that of his young daughter are usually strikingly different. He is
usually at least twenty years older, much larger, and can have an overwhelming
presence compared to his daughter. Here size does matter since at their most
intimate moments, father and daughter will or attempt to fit together in sexual
union. If the daughter is a virgin, the breaking of her hymen must be handled
with care.

2. When

There is a limited window of opportunity for this activity to begin between the
ages nine to twelve years of age for the daughter. Researchers and historians
Rogers and Hurst tell us that the female body is first able to engage in sexual
intercourse at age nine (1). It is interesting to note that according to their
findings, by nine years of age the vagina correlates perfectly in dimensions to
the penis size of her father no matter what his size. From this we gather that
at nine years of age nature has seen to it that a girl, even a virgin is a
custom fit for her father. If any sexual relationship is to be attempted it
should not be done so prior to her ninth year or else their may be some damage
done to her sexual organs.

By age thirteen, however the window closes. This doesn't mean that a man could
not engage in sex past that age with his daughter, but it would have to have
been already established. By age thirteen, Dad is not longer the center of the
world. While the love of a Daughter never lessens, she begins to expand herself
beyond home and family. She doesn't feel she needs a protector nor provider any
more. She would also reject her father as lover. She wants to find independence
and develop boy/girl relationships. If a father hasn't at least begun the
process of preparing for a sexual relationship by age 13, it is unlikely to
happen at all.

Consideration should be giving to your daughter's maturity level in all the
areas mentioned above. No two people are alike nor two father/daughter couples.

3. How

The first step in the process is getting the daughter's willingness to expand
her relationship with her father. To do this Father must be completely honest
about his reasons for wishing to enter into a sexual relationship. He must
explain all the pros and cons of it and he must allow his daughter to choose
how far and if she wants to go on this new journey. This is the part that is
the least predictable. In order for a father and daughter to enter into a
healthy sexual relationship it must be consensual. There must not be any force,
fear, or coersion. If any of these are involved, it is abuse. The father must
be willing to accept his daughter's willingness or unwillingness.

Curious Method (2)

A great method to introduce this subject to your daughter is to play off her
natural curiousity. She will likely at some point ask questions about the birds
and the bees. She will hear other girls and boys talk or brag about sexual
activity. This will all work to your advantage. Answer her questions fully and
address her concerns as need be. Let her know that you are more than willing to
"be there" for her. As "being there" deepens the trust between you, allow your
intimacy to increase also. Nature should take its course from there and sex
will be a expression of what you have together. This will not happen over
night. Relax and let things happen on their own time table. You meet your
daughter where she is and bring her along at her own pace.

Direct or Banana Split method (3)

Another method to develop a sexual relationship with your daughter is to be
direct. The previous method counts on your daughter coming to you. This one
involves you going to her. Let me offer a word of caution. This is not to be
done lightly. The method presumes a healthy and open relationship already. You
are making yourself vulnerable. Not only are you risking your daughter's
rejections but also being exposed to family, authorities, and community. This
is risky even if you have a great relationship with your daughter.

One day when you are alone and have time, you and your daughter make a Banana
Split. As you go out and shop for the makings Chit chat with her and bring up
sex in the conversation. Ask her what she knows and how she feels on the
subject. Get a sense of her comfort level and continue if she seems ok with it.
Then change the subject slightly. Explain that just like kids want things that
may not be good for them all the time, like cake, candy and Banana Splits,
adults, too, want things that may not be the best for them. The conversation(4)
could continue as follows:

"What do you mean, Daddy?" askers the daughter.

"Well, first of all," the Dad starts, "you know I love you more than anything,
right?"

"Yes Daddy," the daughter says, "I know you love me."

"And you love me more than anything, right?" the Daddy asks knowing the answer.

"Yes Daddy," the daughter says.

"What I mean is that sometimes Daddys want things that some say they shouldn't
have," Dad says.

"What things?" Daughter asks.

"Like loving his little girl in every way possible," Dad says.

"But Daddy, you do love me already," Daughter assures.

"Yes, but there is another way we can love each other," Dad says.

"What way is that, Daddy?" the daughter asks.

At this point start making the Banana Split.

"Look," Dad explains, "this banana is nice, tasty, and full of good things that
help make us healthy and happy people. Let's pretend it is you."

"Ok," says the daughter.

"The ice cream is sweet and is good by itself. It makes people happy too. Lets
pretend it's me."

"OK," says the daughter. By this time she should be getting pretty amused by
all this. She will also be interested in what you are getting at.

"Now notice, that putting both the banana and the ice cream together makes
something even better than what they would be separate," Dad says.

At this point peel the banana and slice it down the middle. Have daughter place
it in the bowl.

"By slicing the banana, we have opened it to make it better than it was by
itself," Dad says as she begins to scoop up some ice cream and pile it between
the two halves of the Banana. "Know what happens next?"

"What Daddy?" daughter asks.

"More sweet things start to happen," Dad says as she spreads some chocolate
syrup, nuts, whipped cream over the top. Dad finishes by placing the cherries
on the mounts of whipped cream. "Don't you think this is better than if we just
ate the banana and ice cream by themselves?"

"Much better, Daddy," the daughter says, " but what does that have to do with
us?"

"Just like we put the ice cream inside the banana and made something wonderful,
I want to be inside you and it will be wonderful."

At this point lay your cards on the table. Explain sex as you need to based on
the information you gleaned from your shopping trip. Tell her that it is her
decision and that you will love her no matter what she decides. Give her time
to ponder it all and take the risk and allow her to report it to whomever she
wishes to prove that you are sincere about how much you are willing to put at
stake for her.

Assuming your daughter doesn't go running to the cops and you don't end up in
jail, one of two things will happen. She will either decline or accept your
offer. If she says no, then assure her that if she changes her mind you will
always "be there" for her. If she accepts then you'll be ready to move on to
the next stage.

Discovery Method

This is more sly of than the other methods. Simply leave a father/daughter
story where it can be found by your daughter. It should be written on a level
that can be easily read and understood. Give your daughter time to digest it.
If she asks about it, she will most certainly understand that you want to have
sex with her. If she says nothing, then that will mean she isn't interested.

Any one of these methods can work and be effect. Feel free to be creative. Mix
and match or create your own versions of these. She is your daughter and you
know her far better than this writer. Remember that above all, your motivation
is love for her and the desire to expand your relationship. Sex will not fix
relational problems that already exist.

4. Beginning the Journey

With understanding that a healthy father/daughter sexual relationship must be
consensual, let's assume that the tumblers of the universe have all fallen in
the right place. You have been the model father, have developed a wonderful,
loving, and healthy relationship with your daughter. You have told her you want
to expand that relationship into something more wonderful and she agrees.
Believe it or not, the hard part is yet to come.

You now, as father, must make several choices for the both of you. In making
these choices you must ask yourself several questions. "Will I gradually
prepare her for intercourse?" "When and where will it be?" "How can I make it
the most beautiful experience possible?" "What is the point of no return for
us?" The answers are critical, especially for fathers with virgin daughters.

Before intercourse begins, some ground rules must be put down. These will
clearly define the events to follow and the expectations you and your daughter
will have for each other. Those rules may be something like:

-There will be time (weeks or months) for each to reconsider their position
before going all the way. There is no rush to hope into bed. It is better to
let things simmer for a time and make sure it is the right thing. This is a
special experience and you don't want to mow it down in a mad fit of lust. This
will also allow both you and your daughter to back out for whatever reason or
no reason.

- Either can back out until the point of first intercourse. Dad has worked hard
to get to that point of actually getting in bed with his daughter. Out of
simple consideration for him, it would be horrible to have stop at the last
moment.

- Other rules as deemed appropriate may be added.

Now that rules are set, father and daughter decide when and where. Together
pick a place and date to go all the way. Make it an out of town trip or
vacation. Make the first day of it all centered around your daughter. Visit an
amusement park, water park, etc. Make money no object if possible. Make your
daughter feel more special than ever and enjoy being with each other. At the
end that special day, have a light meal and retire to your sleeping quarters
for the evening.

Attention now shifts to Father. This is the moment for which you've been
waiting and working. Give your daughter one more chance to change her mind.
Assure her that no matter what you love for her will not change. If she is
still willing then you begin foreplay and sex.

There are two ways to prepare your daughter for first penetration. One way is
the "snow ball" model. That is gradually introducing her to sex by kissing and
making out in the weeks prior to your going all the way. Let her experience
foreplay, orgasms, and even finger stretch her vagina some to ease her first
penetration pains, but do not engage in intercourse. Leave that for the
"special" night. You may or may not allow her access to you, but if so keep in
mind this requires a lot of self discipline on Father's part.

Personally I recommend the "Wedding Night" model. In this there is no sexual
activity until that "special" night. You and your daughter maintain a high
level of piety and modestly. This is a far more romantic way to make your
daughter's first time memorable and packed with excitement for the both of you.
Again, before the festivities begin give her one more chance to change her
mind. If this prescription is followed your daughter should be a "ball of fire"
and will in no way consider backing out. If so proceed with consideration given
to daughter's age, and father's endowment.

In which ever model you use, enjoy yourself and don't rush. As with the day
activities, let things move at their own pace and enjoy being with each other.
This night will be a memory far too soon. Make it last. Move your daughter
through hours of foreplay if possible. Make sure she experiences as many
different kinds of sensations as her body can yield leading to the ultimate act
of father/daughter love, intercourse.

5. First Penetration

It cannot be understated what a gentle and delicate process this must be. You
have worked and waited for this moment and your daughter has invested her trust
and love in you to this point. She is now giving you the most precious part of
her body. Depending on her experience level, your penis may and likely will
seem enormous. She would likely want to back out except for the fact that the
two of you have build a level of trust that few fathers and daughter ever know.

It is one of the great ironies of the universe that the penis responsible for
her existence and which can give her pleasure beyond her imagination must now
cause her pain. Pain which ranges from mild to intense. You both know this and
it will be a very emotional moment. Assure her that you will not hurt her on
purpose.

To go that extra mile for her, you may ask her again if she really wants to go
all the way. Telling her that once you start you won't stop. Assuming she is
still willing, which she should be, have her guide you inside her virgin
vagina. Begin entering her slow and easy. Don't rush at all and let her tell
you when she wants more. You are tearing and stretching her most tender part.
Work in and let her get used to it. Repeat this process until you are inside
her body.

The most difficult part of this procedure is when your penis is pushing through
her hymen. No matter how much she begs, cries, screams, or fights, don't stop.
The pain will only be a moment and the pleasure to follow will never stop. Once
you have "bottomed out" let her have some recovery time and to regroup before
you begin in and out motions. When all is well, begin moving in and out ever so
slowly until you both enjoy the most wonderful orgasm.

Conclusion

A father/daughter sexual relationship is a wonderful journey you are embarking
on, but it is not for everyone. Let your wisdom and your love for your daughter
guide you down this most intimate path. Even if you don't go all the way, you
will both be the richer for even considering expanding your relationship to a
sexual level. Regardless of where this path leads you, the journey is never
complete. Each step you take is better than the previous. The key to this new
relationship is to love and enjoy yourselves as fully as possible. Good Luck!

The End


Footnotes:

1. Rogers, T and Hurst, J: Study on Sexuality Among Children - A bullshit title
I created to make this look better.

2. Schultz, B: Sex Education in Family Life - Another bullshit title to make
this look more impressive than it is.

3. Grace, C: I See Yours, Everyday Items in Sexual Awareness- I'm really on a
roll here.

4. Unknown: Day with Dad

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