1 comments/ 13249 views/ 5 favorites Prequel to Dating Lisa By: jamisonh213 Admittedly, I was naïve and inexperienced when I started dating at the age of 18. I missed the early years of dating from 13-14 through the age of 17. Perhaps if I had my sexual encounters would have progressed more slowly and I would not have gone from home plate to 3rd base in less than 8 dates. Below are the two dating relationships I had prior to meeting and dating my husband to be. I knew he was the right man for me when his concerns about my sexual gratification were as important to him as were his own. I believe I never had an orgasm at any time prior to meeting my husband and if I did it was so minor it did not register with my sex organs or brain. The experiences below did drop some of my inhibitions for future sexual adventures. While there are aspects of my story that would be considered interracial I feel that overall it has to fall into the non-consent and reluctance category. I am known as what is called a late bloomer. By my fourteenth year I had just started to get my period, grow pubic hair and develop breasts. Unfortunately the 75 pounds of "baby weight" that everyone told me would disappear stayed with me. When I turned 16 those extra pounds were still with me and I decided that I had to do something about losing weight. My family doctor put me on a diet and by the time I turned 18, I was looking pretty good with maybe another 5-10 pounds to lose. The nice part was that boys were starting to notice me. My best friend Gail wanted to set me up on a double date with her, her boyfriend and this guy named Jim. I agreed and we decided to go to a movie. Jim and I sat in the backseat, obviously, while Gary, Gail's boyfriend, drove. Since this was all of our last year in high school most of the conversation was about the happenings in school. Now Gail and I went to a Catholic Girls School while Gary and Jim went to public school. I really don't remember what the movie was about but the memory of what happened after the movie sticks with me to this day. Gary found a secluded place to park and he and Gail started to make out. While I had only met Jim for the first time this evening, I was unsure of what to do. He was relatively good looking and we seemed to hit it off so when he leaned over to kiss me I let him. Since I had no experience in this area we continued to kiss until he lay down across the back seat. The only way I could reach his lips was to lie on top of him. We continued to kiss and I began to feel his cock harden and he started rubbing it through our clothes just above my pubic area. I froze. I didn't know what to do. Next he started to run his hands over my breasts. Once again, not knowing what to do I let him fondle my clothed breasts. Things were getting pretty heated when Gary announced that it was time to go so we would be home on time. The next day I explained to Gail what went on in the backseat when we were parked. Gail chuckled and then said, "That's boys!" "What do you mean?" I asked. "Once they get a hard cock all they are looking for is some relief", she responded. "If you are enjoying the make out session all you need to do is to stroke their cock up and down until they unload. Then their cock will start to soften and you can go back to kissing. Getting your breasts fondled is no big deal but that is up to you. It's almost like they need something to play with. In the front seat last night, Gary had both hands up my blouse, under my bra and was rubbing my nipples until they became rock hard little nubs. It was such a turn on. I stroked his cock until he went soft and I could feel a wet spot coming through his jeans. At least that is what we did." I was blown away and didn't know what to think. Good little Catholic girls didn't do those things until they like this unless they were married. But Gail did them. How bad could it be? A week went by and I had talked to Jim on the phone a few times. He wanted to know if I would double again with Gary and Gail. I agreed. They picked me up around 8. We went to the movies and then to Gary's little parking spot. Jim lay down on the backseat and I went on top of him. I could feel his penis getting hard. He started to rub his hips against mine (I found out it was called dry humping) so I reached down and grabbed his cock to start stroking him. He took that as a green light and started to unbutton my blouse. He pulled it open to both sides, grabbed my bra and pushes it over my tits. The blouse was draped on both sides of me so if Gary looked back he would not see anything. Jim started to knead my breasts as I continued to stroke him. He started to gently pinch and pull my nipples. It felt like my nipples and pussy were connected. He continued to play with my breasts and I could feel myself getting wet. His body stiffened and he tried to hold back a moan. He took my hand and removed it from holding his cock as he was softening. Whispering in my ear, "thank you" he fondled my breasts a little longer and then helped me get my bra back into place. We sat up a bit so I could re-button my blouse. When they dropped me off I was a little disheveled. Getting ready for bed I took my panties off because they were soaking wet from my leaking pussy. I could barely get to sleep that night. I talked to Gail the next day and told her what happened. She laughed and said, "What did I tell you? It's all about them and once they have their orgasm, things can go back to normal, so to speak." A few days later I got a call from Jim. He wanted to get together after school and listen to music. Since we went to different schools, I had to find out where he lived and then find out which bus from my school would drop me there. I asked my mom if she would be kind enough to pick me up about 5 and take me home. Mom said it would not be a problem but wanted to know who was going to be at home when we got there. I asked Jim and he told me his mother was home from her job then to start dinner. On a Wednesday afternoon, after working out all the details, I took the bus and got dropped off near Jim's house. I still had my school uniform on. When I reached his house he opened the door and let me in. Asking if I wanted anything to eat or drink I politely declined. Jim had said his mother would be home but I did not hear anyone else in the house. I asked him where she was and he told me she would still be at work for another hour. Then he showed me up to his room where he had all his music and sound system. We picked out some songs but it did not take long before we were kissing on his bed. I saw the bulge in his pants and knew he wanted me to start stroking him. I reached over and grabbed his cock while he started to rub my pussy through my clothes. It didn't take long before he stiffened and his cock went soft. He pulled my hand from my crotch and we began kissing and hugging again. A short while later I heard his mother come and we went down stairs so I could meet her. My mom showed up at 5 and I went home. I told Gail what was going on between Jim and I and she said I was lucky. "How's that?" I asked. Gail said, "Because he is not trying to fuck you yet. Every once in a while when things get really hot, Gary will ask to stick his hard cock into my cunt. So far I have been able to put him off but I am afraid if I continue he will break up with me." "I won't let Jim go that far", I said, "I will break up with him." Jim and I had more dates at his house "listening to records". Then on one occasion at his house I had to pee and I asked to use the bathroom. He showed me where it was and when I returned to his room his pants were down to his ankles leaving his rock hard cock exposed and pointing to the ceiling. I was shocked and fascinated at the same time. His mom was not home yet and he must have felt confident about her not walking in on us. While he lay on the bed I walked up to him and knelt on the floor. Taking his rod in my hand gave me the opportunity to view close up view of what a penis looked like. My face was only inches from his rod. I started to stroke him and watched every move and change his dick made. I continued to stroke him and his tool got harder and bigger. I could tell he was getting close when the head of his dick turned a bright shade of red. He stiffened his body and the first shot of his cum was launched into the air. Where it landed I had no clue. His second and third spurt did not go as high into the air and landed on his stomach. Ending with his little hole dribbling out the final few drops, they ran down my hand. I ran to the bathroom to clean up and make sure no sperm landed on me. It was a good thing he had the music on because just then his mom came into the house. We hugged and kissed for a while, always with an ear out for the sounds of his mother coming up the stairs. My ride home arrived promptly at 5. Conferring with Gail the next day she asked me a million questions. How long is it? How thick? Did it take him long? How much cum did he give you? Did he try to fuck you? Answering her honestly I really didn't take notice of the size. I told her there was white stuff all over and even running down my fingers. Gail said, "so he baptized you with his spunk did he?' Then she laughed. "The funny thing was he didn't even touch me other than kissing", I told her. "Well girl it sounds like you need to give him a reason to pay some attention to the sweet little pussy of yours", she chuckled. The more I thought about that, Gail was right but could I be as bold as he was to just strip naked and wait for him to start rubbing me? Surely I did not want him to go too far either. He asked me to come to his house on Tuesday so that morning I got dressed for school a little differently. I put on a pair of panty hose and no underwear. Checking myself out in the mirror in my room I must admit I looked hot. From the back the seam ran right down the crack of my ass. From the front the seam ran from my belly button to the top of my hairy pussy. The expansion panel in the hose framed my girlish charms and then disappeared between my thighs. I wore my knee length uniform and shoes. All dressed for school and I still felt naked. Fearing that the nuns would catch me was really scary. I went through the day making extra sure my legs were tight together. I arrived at Jim's house and we went to his room and turned the music on. His mother was not home yet and we started hugging and kissing on his bed. He started to develop a bulge in his pants so he stood up to adjust himself and then immediately dropped his pants and underwear to expose his man tool. When he sat back down he removed his shoes and took off his pants altogether. I grabbed the hem of my uniform and pulled it up to my waist and rolled it up so it would stay that way. Jim's jaw dropped as I stood there in my pantyhose with my cunt clearly on display. We both lay on the bed virtually naked from the waist down. I began to stroke his cock and he reached over to rub my pussy. I could feel the wetness dripping from me and wondered if he could feel it too. Stroking his penis I could feel his orgasm building and his cock getting redder. He never made an attempt to put his hand underneath my pantyhose and play with my genitals and pubic hair. Was he afraid? The excitement of me being on display must have been too much for him as he started spewing his cream all over. One spurt hit me in my face. Once I had drained the last drop from his vein he started to dress and forgot about me. I walked to the bathroom to wash my face and put my uniform back in place. We finished out the afternoon with music. When next we met at his house I had dressed normally that day. Jim let me in and I excused myself to the bathroom right away. While in the bathroom I removed my pantyhose and panties and placed them in my pocketbook. I made my way to his room and found him naked from the waist down with an erection. I walked up to him and raised the hem of my uniform to present him with my cunt that had no barriers. He ran his finger through my pubic hair. I asked him to extend a finger and I ran that finer up and down the slit of my pussy. He positioned his face between my legs for a close up look at my cunt. Finally I took that hand and helped him insert that finger into my tunnel. It felt so good I could barely stand it. I lay on the bed while he studied me and continued to play with my cunt. He continued to stimulate me by adding fingers, swirling them inside me and pushing them in and out. My nose started to detect the scent from my pussy. Jim noticed it too as he pulled his fingers out of me and smelled them. I think I may have had a small orgasm but lost that feeling when he stood up and started squirting his cum on my stomach and on my pubic hair. Now we had a big mess to clean up because I had leaked some pussy juice on his bed not to mention the odor. The odor was strong and I made my way to the bathroom for a wash rag and air freshener. Jim grabbed his clothes and started to dress. It was a huge load of cum on my stomach and pubic hair that I wiped up with the wash cloth. Rinsing the rag thoroughly to make sure all of Jim and myself were washed down the drain, The next time we got together it became a repeat performance with one exception. I went to the bathroom and removed all my under clothes including my bra. I was completely naked under my uniform. When I entered Jim's room he was rock hard and waiting for me in a state of nature. He asked me to strip completely but I refused. I raised my skirt and unbuttoned my blouse so in essence I was giving him what he wanted. He then asked me if he could jerk off and blow his load onto my pubic hair. I agreed but asked him to go get a towel first so we could clean up quicker. He took up a position between my legs and inserted a finger into my pussy to get me excited and then proceeded to run it up and down my slit and in doing so untangled the pubic hairs of my trim bush. Once I was sufficiently wet and my pearl was protruding, he stood and proceeded to masturbate. The head of his dick got redder and redder. I could tell he was about to blow when he pushed my legs further apart and laid his cock at the top of my slit. I could feel the warm wetness as he pushed his flowing cock toward my vagina. I realized what he was doing and just before he tried to insert himself into me I pushed him away leaving a white trail of sperm from the top of my slit to just before my tunnel and dripping onto the floor. I flipped out. "You tried to fuck me without asking me." I screamed. "Who do you think you are? Our relationship has always been about me taking care of your sexual needs with minimal concern for mine." I grabbed the towel and started to clean myself making sure I kept the jism away from my hole. I pulled my clothes from my purse, ran to the bathroom and started to get completely dressed. Once dressed, I called my mother and asked her to pick me up as soon as she could. I told Jim we were through because he did not respect me and to never call me again. I let him make me his sex toy because I thought that he cared for me but obviously didn't. I stormed out of the house and waited by the street for my ride. Gail and I got together the next day and I told her what happened. Gail said, "He could have gotten you pregnant if he was able to dip his stick in you. Don't worry, I have another guy you should date once and see if you like him. He is in his second year of college and real good looking. Hi name is Bob and I hear he is a gentleman, maybe you would like him. Should I give him your phone number?" Gail was right and after a couple of dates with Bob, I think I was falling in love. He never made attempts to feel me up or dry hump me when we were making out even though I could see the bulge in his pants. On one occasion we were ending up a date by making out in the car and I knew he had a hard on. I felt kind of sorry for him so I reached over, unzipped his pants, pulled his cock out and started to give him a hand job. He broke off the kiss and asked me if it was alright to play with my breasts. I agreed and we resumed kissing while his hands started to roam over my tits. We played with each other for quite some time and then I felt his warm wet cream running over my hand. From that date forward we would talk about the sexual limitations of our relationship. I explained to Bob that I was very heavy but lost the weight. Even so, I feel very self conscious about my looks and body. He said that I looked wonderful and that he would love the opportunity to see me in nature's garb. I told him that maybe a possibility but it would have to be limited to third base activities with no oral sex. Bob explained that he had no problems with the ground rules and that he would wait until I gave the go ahead to take things to the next level. That Saturday we were scheduled to go out in the afternoon. When Bob came to pick me up, my parents weren't at home. I answered the door and let him in. Although I was extremely nervous I asked him if he was still interested seeing "all of me?" He nodded yes and I stepped back from him to remove my clothes. He watched me intently as I removed my blouse and bra. With my tits free on their bindings he approached me and took a breast in each hand. Fondling them until my nipples were hard he stopped and stepped back waiting for me to finish stripping. Kicking off my shoes I then unbuttoned my jeans and wiggled out of them. Bob approached me again and dropped to his knees. He grabbed the sides of my panties and pulled them down until they dropped to the floor. One of his hands went straight to my breast while on the other he extended two fingers that made their way to the entrance of my hairy cunt. I stood and spread my legs a little more to give him better access to my hidden tunnel. He inserted them and I closed my eyes and rolled my head back enjoying the moment. Moving his fingers in and out of my slippery pussy, suddenly the sound of a car door closing disrupted my pleasure. It was my parents and they were home early. While I was gathering up my clothes I could hear Bob saying, "You are hot and have a great body." Running to my room, dressing as quickly as possible and when I came back into the living room Bob was sitting and talking to my parents. I asked him if he was ready to leave and he replied that he was waiting for me. Walking out to his car he said," you'll get a chance to see me naked too but it will have to be later. As we drove off he continued to say how incredibly hot my body is and that he could not wait to see it again. Bob asked if I was willing to meet some friends of his the following weekend. Their names were Craig and Elaine and since Craig's parents were away we would meet at his house. We got there about 8 pm and Craig let us in. He served wine and some snack food. Conversation was friendly and light. About 10 pm Craig stood up and said, "Before this night slips away from us we should get to know each other even better." He then started unbuttoning his shirt. Elaine stood up, kicked off her shoes and pulled her top over her head leaving her bra. To my surprise Bob stood up and followed suit with Craig. I was shocked and did not know what to do. Bob leaned over to me and said, "Just take your clothes off. Nothing is going to happen and I promised you would get to see me naked." Reluctantly and slowly I started to unbutton my blouse. I was not sure how far this was going to go. Elaine unfastened her bra letting Bob gaze upon her breasts. Craig bent over and sucked one of her nipples until it was rock hard. While he was attached to her tit he removed his pants and was dropping his underwear and Bob was not far behind them. I watched Elaine hoping that she would not strip completely naked but I was wrong. With my blouse off I left my bra on and lowered my jeans uncovering my white granny panties. Elaine was now completely naked and sat on the floor cross legged displaying a trim bush and her clit to the boys. Craig and Bob sat on either side of Elaine with their cocks starting to rouse. Only wearing bra and panties I sat opposite, facing Elaine, crossing my legs. I was totally embarrassed but glad that I had trimmed my bush that morning or my pubic hair would have been unsightly poking out from the sides of my panties. Prequel to Dating Lisa Bob leaned over and whispered to me that since Elaine was completely naked that I should be too. I objected quietly for the reason I would be naked in front of strangers. "Not strangers, friends", Bob replied giving me a dirty look. "I told you I would strip naked for you and here it is. Two friends of mine are willing to do the same in front of you so take your clothes off. It's no big deal and Craig is not going to try and fuck you." I could see how mad Bob was getting so I reached behind me and removed my bra hoping that would satisfy everyone. Craig's cock had swelled to its full length as had Bob's. I could see the wetness from around Elaine's hole seeping out. Elaine got something form her purse, unfolded her legs and started to apply a jelly inside her cunt as a lubricant. She reached over and applied some to Craig's cock causing it to swell some more and get redder. She then placed the lube in the center of us. Bob took special notice of what Elaine had done and turned to me and demanded I remove my panties. I don't know what they all had in mind but I refused to remove them. Surely my naked tits and aroused nipples being exposed was enough. Did I really need to show them my ass and genitals to get to know me better? Craig stood up with his rock hard cock, grabbed Elaine's hand and they walked off to another room in the house. That was the last I saw of them. Bob on the other hand was totally irate, accusing me of embarrassing him in front of his friends. He started to put his button up shirt on, told me to get dressed and threatened to stop seeing me. Telling me he was going to take me home I started to cry. He was searching for his underwear when I stood up and removed my panties. I was in a strange house, completely naked with two strangers that could walk in on me at any moment. I shivered as everything hit me at once. I was naked and cold, sexually exited and afraid of being seen by strangers. Needing to smooth things over with Bob I knelt down in front of him and grabbed his dick. I started to stroke him and he seemed to forget about the last fifteen minutes. Coming close to his orgasm I raised my other hand to try and catch his cum so it didn't hit the floor. He looked down at his cock just as he started to blow and I had ropes of white goo all over the palm of my hand. I stood to kiss him and he started to fondle my pussy. He said if I ever embarrassed him like that again there would be hell to pay. Bob wanted to know what the big deal was about stripping naked I tried to explain but he just used my words against me saying as long as there was no intercourse I should have no problem being naked. He continued to dress as I stood naked hoping to please him. I gathered my clothes and Bob said, "Don't put them on. I am driving you home naked and I will tell you when you can get dressed." Walking out to the car I felt like every eye in the neighborhood was watching even though it was late. About a mile from my house he said that I could start dressing. He just dropped me off and didn't even walk me to the door. I went in the house and cried. Things seemed to return to normal after that night and Bob was once again the gentleman he had been. We dated and messed around sexually when the opportunity presented. Then one night he said we were going to a party and asked me to wear a beige knit dress with horizontal stripes that I owned. I loved that dress and I guess Bob did too. The way it hugged my body accentuated my tits when I was not wearing a bra and clung to my hips. Putting on my panties I opted out of wearing a bra. On the way to the party Bob explained that is was small, just 4 couples and us. When we got to the house and the front door opened there was a black guy. No big deal I thought until we went into the living room and I realized that all the other couples were black. I felt very uncomfortable but as we were introduced to everyone they seemed like very nice people. Bob and I sat on a love seat and joined in the conversation. There were drinks and snacks with music playing in the background. The guy that opened the door and was throwing this party was named Ray and his girlfriend's name was Keesha. Then there was Saul and Marie, Linc and Sherry and finally Joe and Michelle. Later in the evening Saul and Marie found themselves sitting on a chair together pawing at each other. Saul started to unbutton Marie's blouse and slipped his hands inside to play with her tits. Ray saw me watching them and said, "Don't pay them no mind. They're always at each other and they don't care who sees them." With that said the conversation turned to sex. As the talk progressed it came out that all of the black couples have had intercourse but not Bob and I. Ray then announced that he had never seen a white girl completely naked other than in a picture. Bob retorted that he had never seen a black girl completely naked. Ray turned to Keesha and said, "Keesha take all your clothes off and show Bob what a fine body you have." Keesha obediently stood up and started to remove her clothes. When she removed her bra the darkness of her areolas and nipples caught my attention. She then removed her panties and stood in the middle of the room completely naked. The other couples started to get active. Ray then said, "Keesha get up close to Bob and show him that fine pussy of yours. Let him feel it if he want to." Keesha walked up to Bob, who was sitting, and almost shoved her pussy in his mouth. Slowly, he pried her labia apart exposing the pink of her vagina. He grabbed her by her hips and had her turn her ass to his face. Putting his hand on her lower back he had her bend at the waist. Spreading the cheeks of her ass he exposed the pink of her tunnel. Bob took a real close look one more time but then called for me to stand up. I knew what was coming next. I went to Bob and pleaded with a whisper not to make me strip. "He whispered in my ear, "You are not going to embarrass me again. Now turn around." I turned around, faced Ray and felt Bob reach for the hem of my dress. I started to cry a little. He pulled the dress over my head leaving me stranding there in my panties. I tried to cover my breasts then he reached for the elastic of my panties and pulled them down until they dropped to the floor. I started to sob because I could not cover everything. Everyone's eyes were on me as I stood there naked. "Lisa, now go over to Ray and give him a close look at your white body. Let him touch you. He will not fuck you so stop crying, "said Bob. Bob returned to where he was sitting and Keesha crawled up on his lap so he could explore her. I walked toward Ray still trying to cover myself with my hands and sobbing. When I got close enough, Ray grabbed my hands and pulled them down to my sides. He then placed one hand on my left breast while the other explored my pubic area. I looked around the room and the other three couples were in various stages of undress. Ray stood up and dropped his pants. His rather large member began to awaken as he removed his shirt. He sat back down and asked me to sit on his lap. With tears in my eyes I looked at Bob and he nodded while now playing with Keesha's tits. I turned around and began to sit on Ray's lap slowly while making sure of exactly where that big cock was. Once seated, I looked down to see the head of his dick sticking up between my legs and resting against the clit of my hairy pussy. He reached around and grabbed both breasts. Rolling my nipples between his fingers I was beginning to forget how upset I was. He started thrusting his hips upward and when I looked down I saw the head of his rod popping up from between my thighs and disappearing when he retracted. Rubbing against my clit as it rose and fell I was getting aroused but still felt humiliated. I looked over at Bob and found him naked from the waist down and finger fucking Keesha while she pulled on his cock. The other three couples were all naked and performing various sexual acts with each other. Suddenly I felt something warm and wet splashing on my tits, stomach and pubic hair. I looked down and saw Ray ejaculating his sperm on me. He finished dropping his load and I thought I could get dressed again. Instead Ray called out to Saul asking if he wanted a close look at a white girl. Saul said," Send her over." I stood up and started to walk to Saul. It hit me that I was going to be passed around that evening. I asked Saul to let me get cleaned up but he refused. He said I should lie on the floor and spread my legs. I began to cry softly again. Saul inserted two fingers as deep as he could into me to the point where it hurt a little. He then had Marie start giving him a blow job. After some time Marie made a face and probably swallowed his load of cum. Saul lost interest in finger fucking me any further. Saul yelled out, "Who wants the white girl next?" Joe spoke up and told me to get on the coffee table on all fours. He came up behind me and jammed two fingers into my cunt. With the other hand he played with one of my tits as they dangled downward. Saul slipped under my other tit and started to suck it. I started to sob again. Joe let go of my tit and started playing with my asshole. Saul was attached to my other tit like a vacuum cleaner. Still on all fours Joe had me start jerking him off. When he could hold it no longer he moved to my ass and let his load fly on my back and ass cheeks. Saul released my tit from his mouth. Looking down quickly I could not believe how he had elongated the one nipple. "Linc you're next," spoke Joe. Linc told me to get down on the floor with my legs spread flat but propped up on my elbows. Feeling the pain of humiliation I started to cry but did as I was told. He kneeled down between my legs and began rubbing his cock up and down my slit. The sensation of his cock rubbing my clit and the sight of the contrast between our skin colors made me quickly forget about my humiliation temporarily. I then thought he was going to jam that thing in my vagina and drop his load in me and that scared the hell out of me. I wasn't on the pill and I did not need a mixed race baby. I made sure that I was prepared to pull away from him if I felt his penis anywhere near my vaginal entrance. Then it happened. He started to spray the outside of my pussy and as he pulled back he sprayed both of my thighs. When he walked away I realized that I now had cum from my tits to my pussy, on my back and ass and running down my thighs. I looked over at Bob and it was easy to see his white sperm on Keesha's black body as he continued to rub her clit with his fingers. There was a big glob of semen on her right tit. One strand of cum ran from her left nipple and draped down to her stomach. More was all over her pubic hair. I didn't know if had fucked her or not and I did not care. I asked Ray if I could possibly get a shower and he showed me to the bathroom. He sat on the toilet and watched me clean up. By this time I didn't care that I was naked in front of a black guy. I had run out of tears and was now beyond humiliation. Handing him my wash cloth I asked him to wash the cum off my ass and back. When he got to my ass he spent some extra time washing while spreading my cheeks and reaching through to my pussy. When I turned around Ray had pulled his erect cock out again. I grabbed it and jerked him off. His sperm hit me in the leg and then ran down the drain with the shower water and everyone else's cum. I dried off with a towel and then walked into the living room naked to get dressed. Bob stood up and I could see that his cock was very wet. He pulled his pants up and I had my clothes back on. Bob said goodbye and we left. There was total silence on the ride home and when we got there, there was no hugging or kissing. Bob tried to contact me several times over the next several weeks but I was always unavailable.