6 comments/ 136322 views/ 14 favorites Women's Guide To No-Strings... Ch. 1 By: Softly It was quite by accident that I discovered how a woman can have exciting sexual encounters with men, of her choice, and be able to go home that night without any worry of entanglements. My husband and I went to a private party given by the friend of a friend. There were twenty-three couples there. A vodka punch was server that was very effective in getting everyone tipsy. My husband, well gunned, was chatting with a group of other men in the den. I made myself useful by serving food and drinks. My wine bottle was half consumed, so I was tipsy too. Seeing an attractive man away from his wife, I asked him to dance. I like to watch a man's reaction when he discovers that I have C cup breasts, so I pressed them to his chest and my leg against his. During one dip, my pelvic area pressed against his leg. He held me tightly while rubbing my back. The song ended. He stayed right there and we talked. He was pleasantly drunk, and I could tell that he wanted to be with me. At the end of a second dance, I excused myself to got to a bathroom. He followed me into the bathroom, locked the door, and backed me up to the sink. In one move, he reached under my dress, lowered my pantyhose and begin to press his mouth to my clitoris. Bemused by this, I reached for his head. As I shifted my weight the pressure of the sink edge behind me made my legs open so that he could get his tongue into me. Oh, but it felt good! Mind you, we are in a bathroom. He lowered me to the floor, dropped his pants and slid his penis into me. Because of the punch, it took him ten minutes to cum. I had two orgasms. We cleaned up and left to return to the dance area. He walked right up to his wife and danced with her like nothing had happened. I found my husband with the same group of men. From the slurring of his words, I figured he was planted there for the night. I went to look around the home. It was a three level. The master bed room was huge. The host entered it while I was there. He was six foot five and two hundred thirty pounds. Good looking. "Love this room," I said. He replied that he especially liked the mirrors that made up one wall. "So you can observe yourself in action," I blurted out. "Yes," He kissed me and lay me onto the bed. He too removed my pantyhose with one sweep. I could not believe this. I was naked from the waist down, since my dress was above my waist. I was in a strange bed with my legs open about to receive the service of a handsome man who I did not know the mane of, and I knew that he did not know me. I was forty years old, at the time, weight one hundred, thirty-nine pounds, and stood five foot, four. He removed his pants giving me a look at his privates. Nice! About seven thick inches. I was wet, as he could tell when he put his hand there. He mounted me. No hurry: just steady long thrusts. The drinks kept him from cuming for fifteen minutes. Add two more orgasms to my total for the night. I closed my eyes, and just enjoyed the action for all it was worth. We cleaned up and returned to the party area. No one noticed us. Both men resumed their rolls in the scheme of thing, which did not include being with me. My husband and I left an hour later with the good wishes of the hostess, who thanked me for helping serve the food and drinks. I thought a lot about what had happened and why it went so well. I wanted more of this sex with good looking men, without any follow up on their part to sully my reputation. I joined the welcome wagon clubs in the near by cities. I also joined two country clubs as non playing member, which is cheap. I make myself very useful to any woman having a party either at home or at the clubs. My husband works the evening shift, three months on and three months off, so I have a lot of time to go places on my own. It is over two years since the "discovery" party. To date, I have had sex with ninety-six (96) men at parties. Not one has tried to call me at home. I am getting very good at going around the building that the party is in, when I get there, to find places that a couple can be alone, and undisturbed for fifteen minutes. Its a game. I am the hunter. And, yes, the sex is very very exciting. Love Y'all, I'm Softly, UB2... Women's Guide To No-Strings... Ch. 2 Golly, the response from "Woman's guide to" gives me a warm feeling. You folks are right when you say that I left out some of the details of exactly what I do and look for before I make things happen. Clothes: Grays or brown clothes of a material that won't wrinkle are good so that you can mingle without standing out, and of course you do not want to appear as though you have been on your back, or other interesting positions. Pantyhose get in the way, so I wear stockings and a garter belt, without any panties. A loose sweater with a bra with front snaps allows easy access, which gets the fellas excited. I wear my glasses to appear less of a threat to the other gals. Makeup: You should wear very little. It gets smeared, and its absence tones you down. The goal is not to be remembered by others at the party. Help serve food: You must do this. It allows you to get a close up look at who is there. You see which woman is with which man. You can pick out two or three subjects to target and track their condition and positions as the night goes on. "Booze" The magic ingredient. Without this you might as well go home. Interestingly enough, it is how much you can get into the other ladies that will determine how easy it is for you to seduce the men. When three or four other woman are flirting and moving around the room, it is easy to spot a man that is alone. If you know from serving drinks that he has three in him, it is like the "ducks in a barrel" saying. Lose control: Happened to me a few times. I had never been with a black man. Good looking guy at a party given at an auto dealer. I made a move on him. He told two of his friends that he thought we might do something. We were in a bedroom in the basement level. As he was cumming in me, the other two came in and one of them replaced him as he slid off. The third guy did the same thing. I enjoyed it, but was worried that if someone came in on us that I would lose my ability to be part of this social group. Turned out OK. Big Penis: Has been a problem several times. Give a guy three or four drinks and let him loose on a strange woman and you can't blame him for getting excited. Girls, you just have to tuck your fanny down to lessen his penetration. If he is huge, as one was, go 69, and don't let go of it. Thrill for you Guys: Tell your wife that you would be turned on by watching her seduce another man. Tell her this a few times. Go to a party. Give her a lot to drink. Then ask a couple guys to, you know, give her some great sex! See y'all! Women's Guide To No-Strings... Ch. 3 Woman's Guide to No Strings Sex With Attractive Men This "How To" is for ladies only. There won't be any vivid sex descriptions, so you guys just shuffle on to another story. Hi, I'm Sue and I wrote two of the stories in the "How to" story section. I use the name Softly. I wish to apologize to a lot of you that wrote to me, because I was unable to answer all your nice e-mails. At last count it was 138. Instead, I will write this, "How to - Three" and I hope it will hit all the high spots for you. First, let me say that all men are clueless when it comes to understanding that one week you have no interest in sex, and the next can't walk by the running dryer without leaning on a corner. Life is unfair in that we gals spend hours talking with five year olds and changing diapers, while our man, in suit and tie, is having lunch at a downtown hot spot. Our only sex outlet is him, while he has the world. If your man is on the road a week or more a month, I guarantee you that he has been with another woman at least five times during the last year. How do I know? My husband and I have a very open relationship. Several swinger couples were at our Villa and "men on the road" came up in conversation. The men said that it would be easy for them to enjoy the company of a woman an average of one night out of every three nights. Why? Well, think about it. They stay at the best hotels. They are wearing expensive suits that mark them as a man that is from out of town and will not pester a woman after a one night fling. The men said that the woman's motive ran from: "mad at their other" "divorced and wanting sex" to "hunting for a man to marry." So much for the men! Ladies, they owe you. Yes, they do. As you sit there reading this, you know that you wish that you could have sex with several men that you know, but don't for all the reasons that are social control. Well, now you can have sex with exciting men without any danger to yourself or your marriage. Your computer is the best sex machine ever invented. There are two routes that you may take: WITH YOUR HUSBAND'S ASSISTANCE: First set up a screen name that does not identify you. Have your husband contact men through some of the sites that I am providing? Never provide you name, or phone number. Have the men you are interested in send you a G rated photo. Set up a meeting in an area away from your home area. Meet with the persons or persons, flirt and dance with them and then retire to the room. Your husband should leave you alone for twenty minutes, so you can get it on without feeling you have to act out a part for him. Go without bra and panties, and be committed to going all the way. Leave your valuables at home, and your ID in the glove compartment. Determine ahead of time what your real interests are. If your "pocket" (vagina) is small, don't think a thick eight inches will be fun, or he can keep part of it outside. It will hurt like the blazes. If you like gentle tender sex, look for it. You can tell by the tone of the ads what is in store. On the other hand, if you are like me and you are deep enough for anything and can have multi experiences, then by all means look for men that can help you out. ON-LINE MEN: The men, I have found, are more nervous then you are, when you meet. Think of it. They know that the woman must approve of them for anything to happen. They are afraid that they will somehow not meet with her expectations. They hope that you will consider them again. If you are good looking, they are often so excited that it is several minutes before they can "rise". Most are intelligent, professional men that have given you their e-mail address and their photo. The last thing they will do is harm you. Remember the "clueless" part of men, and tell them exactly how you want your sex. He will do his best to please you. WITHOUT HUBBY: Usually, when a man won't allow his wife to explore her sexuality it is because he is insecure. Try to change that by telling him how good he is in bed - no booing in the peanut seats please - and trying to get him to swinger parties so he can see that "you go home with him." If that fails, use the below sites to contact men in your area. Set up an e-mail account with Yahoo, or another e-mail provider. Be sure to make up a fake name, because it will be part of your e-mail address. A word about swinger clubs. They are always run by a woman. FYI, couples become swingers because the man wants excitement without cheating on his wife. They stay swinger because the wife has found a forum that is an answer to her prayers. Imagine, being at a party where if you find an attractive man you cozy up to him and in minutes can be in bed with your husband and his wife's blessing! Wow! No means no, and there is little booze and no drugs, If you are a "single" woman, you are always welcome. As soon as you get there, cozy up to the gal running the show. She will gladly tip you to what will be of interest to you. Again, never give your real name. For your meeting with on line men, infer in your E- mail that your husband may wait for you outside in your car, or at a nearby bar. That way, when it is time for you to leave, you can say; "times up." Easy as pie. Write to me, and I'll give you a list of sites that are very, very helpful. HOW EASY IS ALL THIS: My husband and I flew into Tampa in the Company jet for a business meeting that he was to attend the following day. He had paper work and a brief speech to prepare that would keep him in our Villa all evening. I asked him if he minded if I "went out." He knew exactly what I had in mind and said, "sure, have a good time." At 7:30 PM, I sent E-mail to seven different men that I had never met. By 8:40 PM, two had responded, both with pictures. Since both were from Clearwater, I suggested that we meet at the "Golden Surf". It turned out that both were better looking then their photo's indicated and one was an extremely funny guy. After a drink and some dancing, we retired to that guys condo. I returned to our Villa at 2;15 AM, after having a gentle friendly meeting with two really nice guys. I won't look back when I'm an old lady and say, "gee, I wish that I had done that!" Your old man owes you some excitement too. Girls only: if you want some pictures of me and some of my friends having a really good time, write to me. Let me know if I help you "get it on with someone exciting."