1 comments/ 68535 views/ 5 favorites Cyber Techniques 101 By: MungoParkIII Ah cyber, back in the early days of computing, (I'm talking Commodore 64, DOS and green glowing text on black screens) it must have been difficult to imagine the dynamic sexual potential the computer keyboard and screen held. The simple thought that by properly touching just the right keys on your keyboard you could inspire someone else, perhaps thousands of miles away, to have an orgasm was unfathomable at the time. Of course, all that is now old news as the computer has brought on a whole new way of having sex. Who knows, the next generation of computers may have their own built in vibrating cocks and pussies operating by remote control from your partner's keyboard. Even now, with some services, sounds, pictures and even video are easily transmitted within an instant message allowing your cyber to become a sophisticated multimedia fuck. Of course such extravagant productions may not work well in an office setting or with a spouse sitting nearby reading the newspaper. So for the many people who, either by choice or lack of computer savvy, simply must use the words in the instant message window there are some things you can do to spice up your cyber love. I start with a warning, a real problem most people face with text based relationships is that tone does not easily translate into a textual conversation. Voice inflection is lost here, so when you say "Hey, I like your hat," the person you are talking to can't hear you laughing as you say it. They may really believe you like their hat. So be sure when you try some of these techniques that you are messaging with a person who won't suddenly disappear forever if they misinterpret what you are trying to do. Also, some people are easier to impress than others, so don't be devastated when your cutely creative addition to your session goes unnoticed. Believe it or not, cyber sex, much like real sex, can become stale and boring if you fall into a rut, doing the same things over and over. I mean consider sex while hanging from a chandelier, take it from me, the first time you do it, wow it is sensational, so good you want to do it again. It's wonderful, but come about the fifth or sixth time you do it you begin to notice that it hurts your hands and about the tenth time you prepare to do it, you check the TV guide first to see if anything is good on TV that you can watch instead of having sex while hanging from the chandelier. Well, because it's like that with cyber too, I thought I might suggest a few easy additions to a session to add a tiny bit of wow back into your relations. Assuming most people know how to modify fonts, text color, background color and that they understand some of the basic text associations such as ALL CAPS is equivalent to shouting and the lower case "i" is submissive I offer the following: Turn Off The Lights While many of you do this much of the time in real sex, in cyber the lights are on. Sure while sitting in front of your screen you may have the lights off around you, but if you are working in a standard instant message window the text is appearing on a garish, bright screen. Let's get romantic and turn out the lights on screen. All you do is switch your background to black and your text to white, yellow or other light color that will contrast nicely in the darkness. Now of course when you send the message, your partner's screen view will change, but their response will switch the screen back to the white background. Simply repeat the change and hopefully they will pick up on the fact that the lights are out, or perhaps you've covered their eyes with a blindfold. Whisper Sweet Nothings If your cyber scenario has you in a public place where you must be quiet, or you simply want to whisper softly into your lover's ear, whisper to them. To whisper all you need to do is reduce the contrast in your text, or in other words if you are working on a white background change from a black font to a light gray. Your cyber partner will need to move closer to the screen to read (hear) your whisper. Of course the all caps or bold all caps would be shouting instead of whispering, perhaps appropriate if you are fucking while going over Niagara Falls in a barrel. Those were just two simple and fun ways to spice up a cyber scenario. I'm sure you've played with some others, perhaps changing a font color or with emoticons, yes those little faces you make with punctuation marks : ) for instance. Of course some of these tricks may be difficult if you are typing single handedly, I'd recommend using two hands on the keyboard and excite your cyber partner first. Once he or she is finished, then you let him or her dazzle you. Cyber Techniques 102 Having finished your first course we'll continue with a few more ideas to spice up your cyber skills, but first a word about subtlety. As the development of better, more powerful computers opened up a new world of sexuality, this continued development have added some abilities to instant messaging that can have a considerable impact on cyber sex. With the ability to easily send sound, picture and video into an instant message window people can extend well beyond the text based relationships of the past. For some people these techniques are simply part of the evolution of cyber and virtual sex, it represents the raw leading edge of the practice which may be more than some people really want. While certainly the addition of sound, pictures and video will provide a jolt to any cyber relationship, I present here a more subtle approach for those not ready to view and be viewed by your partners, by those cybering in places where sound or images may not be appropriate and for those who see cyber sex as perhaps a more sensual and literary pursuit. Remember that while sex is definitely a physical and visual pursuit, the most dynamic sexual responses take place in the mind. Change Your Font A simple procedure like this can be used to show a change in your physical or psychological disposition. If you are tied up or feeling pain in a SM scenario switch to a messier font, like those that look like actual handwriting. If you want to show dominance, switch to a more obtrusive font, the submissive go to a sans-serif type font like Ariel. The all caps/dominant and all lower case/submissive may work, but the font change is a more subtle change. If your scenario changes your personae and you become another person, or shift to a different personality (ie: Sybil), change to a different style font, perhaps align it with an accent or personality trait. Though not as subtle, something as simple as changing the color of your font can also work here. Bring In Another Partner Be careful here, hopefully you have built up some trust in your cyber partner so you need to think about this one. There is actually two ways to bring someone in for a threesome, one is bringing in a simulated additional person, the other way is an actual third participant in the instant message. Of course this works better if you are in a private chat room so all three screen names will appear in the conversation, but it can be done in instant message if your partner is adept in handling two message windows. To simulate a third person entering the scenario you'll need either another computer or else be signed on as two separate screen names on your computer (this may require two separate accounts). Anyway, it might make for an interesting experience if just at the right time your partner is touched by another person. Of course you could get a friend to join in for a three way cyberfest, but you might want to make sure your partner is ready for it. Your clever little trick to infuse come excitement into the relationship may backfire as your partner dumps you for exposing them and their kinks to a stranger. The Bowl Over This technique will require intense focus and fast typing so forget about trying it one handed. Stop toying with yourself here and concentrate on your partner. The bowl over is just like it sounds, you simply bowl over your partner. It's just like in real sex when one lover becomes so aroused, so involved in the act that they simply take over initiating and dominating all the movement and action. Their partner is typically left to become the recipient of the attention and activity. What you do is simply do away with the two way conversation and follow one description, comment, moan or activity after another, filling the screen with your conversation. Hopefully your partner will pick up on what you are doing and let you have your way with them. The real convenience here is your partner is then free to dispense with typing for a few moments and attend to other things, which is hopefully bringing themselves off and not moving their clothes from the washer to the dryer. The Roll Back Ah, the flip side of the bowl over is the roll back, where you slow down on your responses, encouraging your partner to respond two or three times to your single response, leading of course to your partner bowling you over and giving you time to get yourself off. And don't use this opportunity to grab a beer or load the dishwasher, use it to simply let your partner take over. This technique sure beats trying to keep up while typing with one hand and uh, doing whatever you do with the other. So there you are, a few more subtle techniques to spice up your cyber love. Of course the more experienced cyber lovers may have already used these techniques or have some that are equally as stimulating and fun. Yes they are simple, easy and uncomplicated, but they may just be that little something extra to bring a bit more tingle to your scenario.