1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Oh, there you are. 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:12,640 I was looking for you. 3 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:19,000 I thought maybe you were just like out on a walk or something. 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:24,000 What'd you have to? 5 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:29,000 Are you okay? 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:39,000 Baby, are you okay? 7 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Honey, no, shh, it's okay. 8 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,000 Okay, well... 9 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:55,000 Is everything okay? 10 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:04,000 Is everyone okay? 11 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,000 What happened? 12 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,000 Do I... 13 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:13,000 Do I have to beat the shit out of somebody? 14 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:17,000 Shh, it's okay. 15 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,000 You don't have to... 16 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,000 Stop, don't wipe it away, it's okay. 17 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,000 Come here. 18 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:30,000 Shh. 19 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:36,000 Hey, hey, don't stop, don't turn away. 20 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:40,000 It is not embarrassing, it's not. 21 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,000 Come here. 22 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:47,000 Are you okay? Let me look at you. 23 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:53,000 Turn toward me. 24 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,000 It's not silly. 25 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,000 It's not silly to cry. 26 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,000 It's really not. 27 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:11,000 Dude, honey, stop. 28 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Can you tell me what happened? 29 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:35,000 Unpack, I want to hear it. 30 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:42,000 Yeah, that sucks. 31 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,000 I'm sorry. 32 00:02:45,000 --> 00:03:10,000 I'm sorry you had to go through that, come here. 33 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:14,000 I think you're really strong. 34 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,000 And I admire you a lot. 35 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,000 I tell people all the time. 36 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,000 I do. 37 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,000 I do. 38 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,000 I talk about you a lot. 39 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,000 And I tell everybody. 40 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:32,000 Just your kind of deal. 41 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:36,000 Because I think it's great. 42 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:43,000 I'm really proud that you're mine. 43 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:48,000 And of just who you are. 44 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:56,000 You're amazing. 45 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:03,000 I said you're strong and I mean it, but... 46 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:16,000 Do you know that crying in front of people makes you more strong? 47 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 Yeah, the secret of the universe. 48 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:23,000 It's okay to cry in front of your girlfriend. 49 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:29,000 Or honestly, anybody. 50 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:33,000 It's not embarrassing. 51 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,000 You know what's embarrassing? 52 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:41,000 Having a boyfriend who won't cry in front of you. 53 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:47,000 Sorry, I'm not trying to make this about me, but I just... 54 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:53,000 I really want you to be able to open up to me. 55 00:04:53,000 --> 00:05:02,000 And if you're feeling like this again, or any way that makes you feel like you need support, then I want you to let me know. 56 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:08,000 Because I'm here for you. That's like my job, man. 57 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,000 You can do it for me. 58 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:21,000 It's a symbiotic relationship. 59 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:39,000 I think I heard someone say that you should be in a relationship where the effort put forth is 60-40, but you should both strive to be that 60%. 60 00:05:39,000 --> 00:06:01,000 So, have at it, man. Give it to me, you know? Like, let me know what I can do to help pick you up and carry you and make you feel as strong as you are. 61 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Because you're a tough cookie. 62 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,000 I mean, look, I get it. 63 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:23,000 Because I don't really like crying in front of people either. It's awkward. I don't really know anyone who enjoys it. 64 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:34,000 But everyone needs those people who they can feel comfortable opening up to and crying in front of. And I just... 65 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,000 You're that for me. 66 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:44,000 I want to be that for you. 67 00:06:44,000 --> 00:07:00,000 Well, I know I don't cry like a ton. I mean, I think I cry a fair bit. I just, I don't show it to most people and it is kind of silly things. 68 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:07,000 I cried the other day about, what was it? 69 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:11,000 Oh, it was like a Chevron commercial, I think. 70 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:18,000 Yeah, it was. It was either for Chevrons or for like some jet printer. 71 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:23,000 And I cried. I got a little choked up. 72 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:42,000 It was the music. I can't help it. I mean, I cry over trailers a lot. More than the movies. I cry way more over trailers. It's just like the cinematics of it and the editing and the... 73 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,000 I don't know. Man, that musical accompaniment really does something to me. 74 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:55,000 Oh, and like battle sequences. I cry over those a lot. You've been there for some of that. 75 00:07:55,000 --> 00:08:01,000 I mean, you've been there for actually a good bit of it. It's just not full on full on tears. I get choked up. 76 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:06,000 Do you remember that commercial from, I think it was like last Christmas? 77 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:16,000 And it was this animation of this girl who had like written a bunch of stuff out and she was too insecure and she was never satisfied with it. 78 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:30,000 And she, like her like jackass dog or something, her big like mop dog had had enough with her attitude and her self-deprecating nature. 79 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:43,000 And he pushed open her window. She had like a kick ass apartment. He pushed open her apartment windows and like all the papers went out and she had to go around town and try and find all her papers. 80 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:55,000 And people picked them up and read them. And I don't know what the hell she'd written on them because it only took them like 0.5 seconds to look at the papers and then look up at her 81 00:08:55,000 --> 00:09:05,000 running through the streets on like a frosty evening and go like, wow, a genius. She's the new Mozart or whatever. 82 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:20,000 But I can't, that commercial made me cry every single time. If we play it right now, I will be misty. I will get so choked up. 83 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:31,000 It is nice to have those little things because I feel a little emotionally stunted sometimes because I'm friends with so many hyper emotional people. 84 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:41,000 And when they cry, yes, sometimes it is over silly things. People cry over silly things, but their emotions are not silly. It's just what they're feeling. 85 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:55,000 And it's not different for guys. You're just a person. You're a person and you cry over the opening to Avatar the Last Airbender. We all do it. 86 00:09:55,000 --> 00:10:03,000 It's just it's part of the human condition. Speaking of Avatar, you know what I still cry about? I mean, you know this. 87 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:12,000 Zutara. That's right. Zuko and Katara should have gotten together and I will never, never not be upset over that. 88 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:25,000 That's my lot in life. Still gets me emotional. And how about the next time I think of that while making muffins? 89 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:33,000 I just find you wherever you are. I find you. I walk into the room or I FaceTime you and I just show you my crying face. 90 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:45,000 It's silly, but it broke my heart, man. Don't don't don't get me started on this conversation again because I won't. 91 00:10:45,000 --> 00:11:02,000 So I'll show you my Zutara tears, which are never ending. And you can you can anytime anytime that you want to cry, honey, you can you can do that. 92 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:07,000 I don't want you to feel embarrassed. 93 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:23,000 I don't think it's embarrassing. I mean, I get the discomfort of it. But what's important to me is that you feel like you can open up around me and others, anyone you want. 94 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:37,000 But I am your girlfriend, so I would really like to see that side of you. I want you to cry. I mean, I don't I don't want you to be sad. 95 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:48,000 You get what I mean. I want you. If you want to cry, I would much rather that you did than bottle it up. That's not healthy. 96 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:57,000 Plus, when you cry, little tip, when you cry, the blood rushes to your face, makes your lips look fuller. 97 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:04,000 I'm just saying it's a technique I've used in the past. 98 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:10,000 Yeah, I guess when you cry, gosh, you look extra kissable right now. 99 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:18,000 Oh, I'm sorry. I'm not trying to make fun. 100 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:21,000 You're my favorite. 101 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:28,000 You are. 102 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:40,000 I mean, you know, I get really actually very emotional concerning you. 103 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:54,000 Yeah, I do. That's something I try to hide because I feel like it happens so much. 104 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:59,000 It's a little embarrassing. 105 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:07,000 I'm not embarrassed of how I feel. I just I it's so frequent. 106 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:11,000 I mean, like, well, here's a big one. 107 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:18,000 When when I first told you that I 108 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:24,000 loved you, I cried. 109 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:35,000 And when you sent it back, I cried. 110 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:41,000 Yeah, I just like broke down. 111 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:46,000 It just meant so much to me. 112 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:55,000 I was so happy and relieved. 113 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,000 And the first time that we slept together. 114 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,000 I mean, you remember I cried then. 115 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:06,000 I still kind of cry sometimes. 116 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,000 Sex is emotional or it can be. 117 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:19,000 And I just I just get really 118 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,000 grateful and amazed 119 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,000 that I get to do it with you. 120 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:46,000 So it means a lot to me and I just get all choked up. 121 00:14:46,000 --> 00:15:03,000 I have a hard time even saying that I love you sometimes because my voice breaks. 122 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,000 Sorry. 123 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:16,000 No, you're right. Sorry. Sorry for. 124 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:26,000 So don't cry or no, do cry. 125 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:35,000 You're great. 126 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:39,000 Do you want to know another thing I cried about recently? 127 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,000 Elephants. 128 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,000 You're just elephants. 129 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:54,000 Just I was in the shower and I just thought about just the concept, just the concept of these 130 00:15:54,000 --> 00:16:04,000 big, like dumpy, leathery, majestic, wrinkly friends. 131 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,000 And they're so beautiful. 132 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:13,000 They are so intelligent. 133 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:17,000 And they can paint and they can they mourn and they recognize. 134 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:18,000 Oh my God. Sorry. 135 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:26,000 Just it was just on a concept of like, like the idea of an elephant being there for you. 136 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,000 Do you know what I mean? 137 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,000 Like an emotional support. 138 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,000 Oh, God. 139 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:49,000 Oh, and then I got shampoo in my eye and then I cried a lot more. 140 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:57,000 I don't know if you ever cried over over the thought of being friends with, I don't know, an aardvark. 141 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:01,000 What's your favorite animal? 142 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,000 Oh, very nice. 143 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,000 Why didn't I know that before? 144 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,000 Oh, oh, actually. 145 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:11,000 Also, speaking of aardvarks, I found a bunch of my old Arthur VHSs. 146 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,000 If you want to watch those. 147 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:19,000 And then I can cry at the opening theme. 148 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,000 Oh, you can record it. 149 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:30,000 Honestly, just look at my face the whole time and we can sing it together and I will have some tears glistening. 150 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,000 Okay. 151 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:36,000 Do you want to do it right now? 152 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,000 Sick dude. 153 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,000 All right. 154 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:45,000 I'll go get that set up if you want to get some snacks or something. 155 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,000 Fuck yeah. 156 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:51,000 All right, you beautiful bastard. 157 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:55,000 I'll see you inside. 158 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,000 Oh, by the way, another beauty secret. 159 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:02,000 When you cry, you get a beautiful kind of flush going. 160 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:03,000 It's very nice. 161 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:06,000 You look like a cherub. 162 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,000 Oh, no, those are babies. 163 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:09,000 It's I got. 164 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:17,000 I'll see you inside.