My ideal dominant tongue? That's an interesting question. I suppose you assume that I'm going to start talking about appearance, though I will say a certain level of physical fitness is definitely required. I do a bit of weightlifting, I'm a little bit of a gym head, lots of cardio hiking, those sorts of things, so because of that, as soft and voluptuous as my figure is, I've got a bit of strength behind me, so my ideal dom would have to be strong enough to conquer that. In terms of personality, well, that's a little bit of an easy question. My ideal dom would be considerate enough of the few boundaries that I have that I wouldn't need to use my stoplights regularly, but he would be an absolute total sadist, somebody who enjoys hearing my screams and moans and squirming and choking and all the other dirty things that I get up to when I mess around with people. BDSM is a fetish for me, rather than just a kink, if you're familiar with the particular sub-community in which that's a distinction. It basically comes down to, do you need it to get up, or do you just want it? I'm in the needed camp. There's a very short list of fetishes and BDSM is one of them. So my ideal dom would, in particular, make use of my obsession with sucking dick, because I got quite good at it over the years, just simply out of the sheer joy of it. I love twirling my tongue around the head of a cock, I love teasing and tormenting and licking under the underside and listening to the moans and squirms and, oh, this delicious way that my dom would gasp and catch his breath, knowing how much I'm giving them pleasure is such a huge part of it for me. He would be somebody with a high drive who's not afraid to take me in any room in the house. That's incredibly important. I am the type that would want to be able to bend over and fall to my knees, get shoved against a wall, any of those things at any time, and if he enjoyed surprising me, well, all the better. He'd be somebody who is regularly interested in training me and improving my obedience, someone who's not afraid to punish and not afraid to punish with a great deal of pain and take good, good care of me afterwards. I want to make sure I learn my lessons like a good sub. I wouldn't want somebody who would spare the rod if I'm a lazy piece of shit for some reason. Most of all, though, my ideal dom would use me and use me well. They would be somebody who consistently wanted me, and I would be oh so very prepared to serve them.