1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:17,440 Okay, so where I left you guys my contract was rule number five. 2 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:28,280 So I wanted to separate it out because it's a lot and I don't know. 3 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:35,360 I don't know why, I just felt like it should be in sections as opposed to just one half 4 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:43,280 hour long recording about what, basically about what being submissive means to me because 5 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:52,320 this is, this is it, this is how I live my real life, this is my, this is my daily life, 6 00:00:52,320 --> 00:01:02,600 this is my relationship with my master and it means so fucking much to me, shhh. 7 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:08,280 Okay, so number six. 8 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,920 Owner has complete discretion with what to do with his property, including training and 9 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:13,920 punishment. 10 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:20,120 A kitten is required to be completely obedient to her owner, failure to comply will result 11 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,120 in punishment. 12 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:26,520 Methods of punishment are at the owner's discretion, provided they cause no permanent harm to 13 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:31,440 the pet. 14 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:41,400 So I have to listen in and do what he tells me to and punishment in our house is not something 15 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:49,560 we like to do, we don't do play punishments, we don't shhh, we don't pretend like punishments 16 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,000 are nothing. 17 00:01:52,000 --> 00:02:02,680 We have a very specific punishment tool, it's a wooden paddle that hangs in our bedroom 18 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:12,360 separate from all the other fun impact play toys because it's not meant to be fun, it's 19 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:18,160 not meant to be taken lightly. 20 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:27,920 I've never used it on anybody, I won't even touch it when I'm getting it down, I mean 21 00:02:27,920 --> 00:02:35,680 unless I'm getting it down for him, but I can see it anytime I'm snuggled in his arms, 22 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:41,440 you know when I'm laying on his chest, it's on the wall that I can see. 23 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:50,200 So I know that I need to behave because that's what happens and he doesn't like doing that 24 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:51,920 to me. 25 00:02:51,920 --> 00:02:58,040 Um, anyway sorry my nerves are getting to me because this is really really personal, 26 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:04,120 so if I'm babying more often it's just because I'm nervous because I'm letting you guys into 27 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:09,480 this big aspect of my life. 28 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:18,680 Kitten understands that her mind and body belong to owner and may be trained, restrained, 29 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:27,840 gagged, used sexually, punished physically, or anything owner deems fit. 30 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:35,600 So that's pretty self explanatory but number 8, Kitten agrees to obey to the best of her 31 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:44,120 ability to devote herself and to devote herself entirely to the pleasure and desires of owner 32 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:53,280 and must obtain permission from owner before performing any sexual action including masturbation. 33 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:58,680 Kitten also renounces all of her rights to her own pleasure, comfort, or gratification 34 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,420 except in so far as permitted by the owner. 35 00:04:02,420 --> 00:04:11,200 So basically that rule is why I can't fap in the threads as often as I used to be able 36 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:17,400 to because I'm not allowed to fap as often as I used to be able to in general for me 37 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:22,480 to get permission and that's really hard for me. 38 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:29,360 The last time I got punished was because of that because sometimes I just, I get so fucking 39 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:36,720 horny and he doesn't respond to his texts in time or he's sleeping and I don't want 40 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:49,840 to wake him to ask him if I can please fuck my navy cunt, oh god, I really need to fap. 41 00:04:49,840 --> 00:05:00,320 But yeah and so like also in that rule is if he wants to fuck me and he doesn't want 42 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:08,800 me to cum I have no say, he can just use me and I can try to get him off and in the process 43 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:17,080 think about my grandma so I don't cum so his cock doesn't force me to fucking cum all over 44 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:18,080 it. 45 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:32,720 Reading this has really really turned me on and I think it's partially humiliation, partially 46 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:43,360 that I'm reminding myself what this collar I wear is for when I'm holding onto it. 47 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:49,120 9. Owner agrees to learn what excites Kitten through exploration and communication and 48 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:55,560 try to incorporate this into the relationship to the best of his ability. So for example 49 00:05:55,560 --> 00:06:05,000 he's not as much of a sadist as I am a masochist but I am a huge masochist and I ate lots and 50 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:13,760 lots of pain, ergo, rule number 9. 51 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:27,560 10. This one is where a lot of people shy away from being a tom. This is where it's 52 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,800 a lot of work for the owner. 53 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:38,440 10. Owner accepts full responsibility of Kitten. This includes but is not limited to pet survival, 54 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:44,600 health, physical well being and mental well being. Kitten accepts full responsibility 55 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:51,080 for informing owner of any real or perceived dangers or safety concerns but also states 56 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:56,560 that owner's decision will be final regarding these issues. Owner agrees that Kitten will 57 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:02,520 not be punished for respectfully stating these concerns. Owner further agrees to listen to 58 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:08,600 Kitten's concerns with a clear and open mind. Owner shall endeavor not to inflict physical 59 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:20,560 harm upon Kitten which might require the attention of someone outside the relationship. 60 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:35,080 So basically he's saying that he takes complete control over me. That if I'm having an anxiety 61 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:48,720 attack he is vowing to take care of that for me. To tell me is that he's taking responsibility 62 00:07:48,720 --> 00:08:02,160 of my health and my eating habits and my doctor's appointments and I mean he takes such fucking 63 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:13,720 good care of me and that's really the biggest thing with that role. The snacks were like 64 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:19,280 I came up with to help me remember. 65 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:25,520 11. Kitten agrees to give up all control of her financial assets and physical possessions 66 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:31,320 at any time. Owner may give free reign of these possessions but ultimately if the parties 67 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:37,200 disagree the final decision will lie with the owner. Kitten is required to respect and 68 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:41,880 do all that she can to not damage owner's other possessions and will never attempt to 69 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,160 dictate what owner may do with them. 70 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:57,080 So this role was put in so that for example I'm going to be buying a car soon and I feel 71 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:02,400 it's in my best interest to buy it as soon as possible to get his car that I'm loaning 72 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:07,840 off the road so that his other car he's got two cars and I'm driving one and he's driving 73 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:15,200 one but the one that he's driving shouldn't be driven because it's not a driving car it's 74 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:24,320 a race car. So I think I should get the car as fast as possible he thinks I should save 75 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:31,920 the money. If there's a disagreement it's his call. When I finish my degree and I have 76 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:37,800 more money than I know what to do with because I don't need much to be happy I'm just going 77 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:43,760 to give him all my money and tell him to take care of it because I don't want that kind 78 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:55,720 of responsibility I don't want control over that. And for example as far as never dictating 79 00:09:55,720 --> 00:10:06,840 what owner may do with them he has some hobbies that I think are stupid and as far as I've 80 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:14,120 been over the years it's very disrespectful about that. I make comments because we're 81 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:21,880 not always constantly in the dumb sub line space so I'll say how much money did you spend 82 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:27,920 on that thing or blah blah blah and that's not my call that's not something that I should 83 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:46,200 do and his money is his call you know. So I need to be more respectful of that. Number 84 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:52,720 12 Kitten agrees to accept the responsibility of using the safe word when necessary. Kitten 85 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:57,240 acknowledges that the safe word is read and a safe signal in the event that speech is 86 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:05,200 not possible is blinking rapidly or opening or closing of the hands. Owner accepts the 87 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:10,680 responsibility of assessing situations where kitten calls the safe word or signal and will 88 00:11:10,680 --> 00:11:15,160 to the best of his ability make judgement on whether to modify the activity or stop 89 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:22,440 activity entirely. Kitten agrees to hold no ill will toward owner's decision. Owner agrees 90 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:30,200 not to punish kitten for the use of a safe word. I don't very often safe word but when 91 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:40,000 I do he needs to make adjustments even if it doesn't mean stopping. It's pretty self 92 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:46,000 explanatory though we do have two safe words. Red is for stop completely and yellow is for 93 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:55,240 you need to pull back. 13 Owner and kitten may take on additional partners at each other's 94 00:11:55,240 --> 00:12:03,080 comfort level. Each must approve of the additional partners and has the right to end the relationship 95 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:10,880 at any time. Each other must have first priority and their emotional stability must take precedence 96 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:17,960 over the other party's wishes. So basically he can have doms, he can have subs, he can 97 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:23,880 have girlfriends, boyfriends, whatever. Same is so for me. Same for me. But if he doesn't 98 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:30,440 like one of my partners he can end the relationship at any time and vice versa. We learned that 99 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:40,480 after he took on another sub earlier this year and we had some learning curves to do 100 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:49,000 to get over. 14 Kitten agrees to answer any and all questions asked by Owner freely, promptly 101 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:54,800 and to the best of her knowledge. Kitten further agrees to volunteer any information that Owner 102 00:12:54,800 --> 00:13:01,240 should know regarding Kitten's physical or emotional state. Owner agrees to never use 103 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:17,240 this information to harm Kitten in any way. So it's pretty self-explanatory. But it helps. 104 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:21,800 Kitten states that her limits are but are not limited to what is noted below in section 105 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:28,240 2.1. Owner agrees to never violate these limits without prior negotiation of and consent by 106 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:35,400 Kitten. 16 Owner will furnish Kitten with a symbolic token of ownership, the mutually 107 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:40,360 agreed-upon day collar, which is not to be taken off unless required by physicians for 108 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:46,080 medical tests. While outside of the house, Kitten is required to also wear the engagement 109 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:53,600 ring and or wedding ring after marriage. While inside the house and or as requested, Kitten 110 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:58,480 will wear her normal collar in addition to these other symbols of ownership. Kitten agrees 111 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:03,200 to wear these symbols at all times as per the rules stated above, except when Owner 112 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:15,440 states otherwise or the agreement terminates. So the engagement ring I remember most days 113 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:21,240 when I go to work or when I leave. I don't wear it all the time because it has a lot 114 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:25,960 of really small diamonds and I get paranoid that some of the tiny diamonds are gonna fall 115 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:35,680 out and I'll never find them ever again, forever. So I do take it off at night. But the normal 116 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:42,760 collar that I have is black and it's a generic looking collar, but it means a lot to me. 117 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:49,120 So I wear that when he asks me to at home. I don't always have to wear it at home. And 118 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:58,480 I can't sleep in it very well because it kind of digs into my chin. It's kind of tall. 119 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:03,760 Seventeen, Kitten will treat herself with respect at all times in the way Owner wishes. 120 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:09,640 This includes but is not limited to taking her medicine, wearing seatbelts, keeping with 121 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:22,640 hygiene standards. Kitten will not engage in activities that damage herself. So yeah, 122 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:27,560 I have medicine that I have to take, I have to take it. I am bad about wearing seatbelts 123 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:39,320 and he hates it. So that's in there. Hygiene standards include keeping myself cleanly shaven 124 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:46,480 and keeping my hair dyed. Which by the way, just an update, my hair is now lavender. It 125 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:57,920 has been for about six months now. Yeah, and I used to have trouble with self harm and 126 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:04,320 so that's in there as well. Eighteen, Owner may choose to rename his pet whatever and 127 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:09,560 whenever he wishes to better reflect Kitten's new status, Kitten is required to respond 128 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:18,280 to the name. That's just in case. Kitten agrees and understands that any infractions, 129 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:23,720 this is nineteen, any infractions of this agreement or any act Kitten commits which 130 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:29,160 displeases Owner will result in punishment. Kitten will gracefully accept punishment and 131 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:35,400 try to learn from it. Kitten agrees to assemble the punishment materials as ordered by Owner 132 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:41,320 and to assume any position needed to accept the punishment. Kitten understands that failure 133 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:48,120 to comply with Owner's orders will result in a more severe punishment. Owner will inform 134 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:53,320 Kitten that she is being punished when punishment occurs. Owner will explain the reason for 135 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:59,320 punishment either before, during, or following punishment. Owner agrees to discipline only 136 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:05,760 out of a desire to better the pet and further agrees to never punish out of or during failings 137 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:30,160 of anger. I touched briefly on how this has been earlier. It's something that happens, basically, five smacks with the paddle is pretty standard, but the more I do something. If I, like for example when I 138 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:39,160 fapped without permission and I had to record the thing for the thread, that was five, but 139 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:45,960 apparently the next time I do it, it'll be ten. And that thing makes me cry, not only 140 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:55,960 because it hurts, but because emotionally it's hard. But yeah. And number twenty. Owner 141 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:01,760 agrees that this arrangement is to be spoken of only between privileged parties and that 142 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:07,060 pet is permitted to conduct her normal activities outside of this agreement should they prove 143 00:18:07,060 --> 00:18:12,160 to hinder her work or other responsibilities in any way. Kitten shall not be punished should 144 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:29,160 this occur. So like my friends, I can talk about this obviously, who already know. My mother, who is in the kink scene as well, I can talk to her about it. Things like that. 145 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:46,160 So, and I can do my normal things, as long as it doesn't impact our relationship. And then there's a spot for the date and a spot for our names to be signed. And then 146 00:18:46,160 --> 00:19:11,160 my hard limits, which is section 2.1, reality, real children, scat, water sports, there's an asterisk beside water sports, competitions with but they're submissives. That's, yeah, ass to mouth in any way. Public nudity, there's an asterisk, exhibitionism, there's an asterisk. 147 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:23,160 Next to water sports, public nudity, exhibitionism, the asterisk denotes a current hard limit, but with a lot of training and extenuating circumstances, this may change if absolutely necessary. 148 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:44,160 Competitions with but they're submissives, that's something I learned recently I can't do. Ass to mouth is just bad. So, and water sports is just something I'm not comfortable with. But this was a little longer than I expected, so I apologize. 149 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:56,160 But I hope you enjoyed listening to what our contract is and what it means to me.