1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:14,320 Hello, this is The Flowers by Audios and this is my first AMA where I'll be answering a 2 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,140 couple of questions that were submitted. 3 00:00:19,140 --> 00:00:26,320 Thank you to everyone who did participate in submitting questions, I really appreciate 4 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:30,920 it and yeah, let's get started. 5 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:39,680 So the first question I have is, what stereotype about your country slash ethnicity do you 6 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,920 dislike the most? 7 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:58,920 So I am Latina and the thing I hate the most is the generalization of where I'm from when 8 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,000 I say that I'm Latina. 9 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:08,400 A lot of times people like to assume that it's Central American and it's not. 10 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:15,260 I am from South America, that's where the majority of my mother's family is from. 11 00:01:15,260 --> 00:01:22,640 So I tend to speak Spanish very differently than most of the people around me, so that's 12 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,640 one of the big ones. 13 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:32,040 And I'm going to leave this one for closer to the end. 14 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:33,040 What time? 15 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:34,040 Actually, no. 16 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,040 Let's go ahead. 17 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:48,840 What physical aspect of the male, if possible female as well, body turns you on the most? 18 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:57,240 So there's a funny story behind this, but I used to work in restaurants for about almost 19 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:04,000 eight years and we did a lot of prep work. 20 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,480 I was formally trained by a chef. 21 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:11,200 I went to culinary school. 22 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:15,200 So we did a lot of prep work, so there was a lot of knife handling, proper knife care, 23 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:29,080 proper knife technique, all of that, and in that time I became obsessed with the hands 24 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:36,640 and forearms when someone is in the kitchen handling a knife. 25 00:02:36,640 --> 00:02:45,360 The motion, the way that the muscles tense and relax, I find it appealing to say the 26 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,480 least. 27 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:57,640 So that is definitely the thing I find the most attractive in both men and women. 28 00:02:57,640 --> 00:03:02,920 I am bed sexual, so I don't discriminate. 29 00:03:02,920 --> 00:03:11,080 And also for women, hands in general, they're well maintained. 30 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,440 I am a physical touch person. 31 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:14,960 I like to be touched. 32 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:27,080 Therefore, if your hands feel nice, that is a huge, huge important aspect to me. 33 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:32,280 What time during the day are you the horniest? 34 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:36,360 This is a tough one. 35 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:47,080 It can hit me out of the blue, but night, night times usually the big one, when I'm 36 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:54,760 relaxing and I let my mind wander and I start thinking about things or I start listening 37 00:03:54,760 --> 00:04:03,320 to things, those are usually the big ones. 38 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:12,960 What's your ideal amount of sex per week? 39 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:24,680 I, this is going to either make appeal to some or appeal to none, but I am a too, too 40 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:33,000 to three times a day type of person, if not more. 41 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:39,120 And to me, it's not just, you know, intercourse. 42 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:47,680 I enjoy going down on my partners thoroughly. 43 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:58,560 That is my, excuse me, my favorite thing to do. 44 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:09,720 So I will do it as often as I can, morning, noon, evening, any time of day. 45 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,000 It always depends on my partner. 46 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:20,800 I am a pleasure primal switch, so my pleasure is derived from my partner. 47 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:29,500 So whatever they feel comfortable with sexually, I will conform to that. 48 00:05:29,500 --> 00:05:36,820 I will adapt to it, because my pleasure is derived from their pleasure if I'm pressuring 49 00:05:36,820 --> 00:05:42,320 them and they are not receiving the pleasure from that. 50 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,080 I don't receive any pleasure from that. 51 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,160 So yeah. 52 00:05:50,160 --> 00:06:01,320 What fictional character do you want to have sex with the most and why? 53 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:18,080 Oh, so I'm a huge anime person, like, yeah, Tooty Man for the win. 54 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:26,840 Aizawa sensei from My Hero Academia, there's just something about the way he carries himself 55 00:06:26,840 --> 00:06:28,840 very nonchalantly. 56 00:06:28,840 --> 00:06:34,120 That his power is fascinating. 57 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:49,160 The next question is, what's the dumbest slash funniest sexual encounter you've ever had? 58 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:54,400 I'm not too sure on this one. 59 00:06:54,400 --> 00:07:02,280 I've had some pretty out there ones. 60 00:07:02,280 --> 00:07:20,640 I think the, it wasn't necessarily a sexual encounter, but this one can go on for most 61 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:28,680 out there, and the one that I always tend to reference for those of you with corruption 62 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:29,680 kinks. 63 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:40,720 There are two that I like to talk about when we bring that up, but this one is dumb because 64 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:49,000 he lied to me, which I thought was ridiculous. 65 00:07:49,000 --> 00:08:11,240 I unknowingly had sex with a priest and this, sorry, I'm a little thirsty. 66 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:17,880 I thought it was dumb in the sense that, you know, you're supposed to be dedicated and 67 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:28,440 religious and vows and all that, and clearly something was missing from that life that 68 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:32,440 drove you to lie. 69 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:36,800 Yeah, and I picked him too. 70 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:47,600 Yeah, he was a dirty, filthy little slut, yeah, but then that was fun. 71 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:59,280 The next one is, what are my dick size preferences, big, small, average? 72 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:05,600 I'm going to be perfectly honest, I've had sex with people who have larger dicks, I've 73 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:10,680 had sex with people who have smaller dicks. 74 00:09:10,680 --> 00:09:17,120 If you can make me cum, that is what's going to matter. 75 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:24,360 The men with smaller dicks tend to do more foreplay, I've noticed. 76 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:29,520 They tend to be more focused on your pleasure, especially before sex. 77 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:40,800 Men with larger dicks, some of them have been great, some of them have been not so great. 78 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:47,880 But yeah, if you can make me cum, that is going to be the way that I rate you, not your 79 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,520 dick size. 80 00:09:50,520 --> 00:10:02,760 Worst and best date you have ever been on. 81 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:25,960 Worst date I've ever been on has to be New York Comic Con, I'm a huge nerd, and my partner 82 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:41,440 at the time, I had, this was back when I first got diagnosed with stage 3 non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, 83 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:55,880 it was October of that year, and it was right before I was supposed to start all of my treatment, 84 00:10:55,880 --> 00:11:09,940 we got on a bus, got a shitty hotel room, dressed up as characters, and I did gender 85 00:11:09,940 --> 00:11:27,000 bend Loki, Ari from League of Legends, Jinx from League of Legends, I did, he did Deadpool, 86 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:42,720 I did Spider-Man, I did Mary Jane, and then I did a gender bend Tony Stark, that was fun. 87 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:50,360 Best date, because it was just this whole thing to get my mind off of what I was about 88 00:11:50,360 --> 00:12:02,400 to have to go through, and that was like a big one, but Loki, when people find out that 89 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:11,400 I love to read, people tend to take me to like bookstores, with like coffee shops, I 90 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:21,440 am a coffee fiend, fiend, absolute fiend, so yeah, books and coffee, those tend to be 91 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,440 the best dates. 92 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:33,120 Worst date I've ever been on wasn't technically even a date, it was a blind date, we had been 93 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:46,400 talking for maybe 3 weeks, I show up, I'm sitting at the restaurant, and all of a sudden 94 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:55,480 I get a text saying that he showed up, saw me, and left. 95 00:12:55,480 --> 00:13:11,720 I know that I'm not supermodel hot like most people, conventionally attractive, but a bitch 96 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:23,160 can turn it up, okay, I can look good if I want to, yeah, I think that's the worst one. 97 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:32,280 Besides GWA, what are your top 3 erotic subreddits to visit? 98 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:41,800 I like Pillow Talk, I know that it's not erotic, or doesn't tend to necessarily be erotic, 99 00:13:41,800 --> 00:14:03,720 but I really like Pillow Talk, Pillow Talk audio is just, I like to choose the softness, 100 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:09,800 like when to be soft type of deals, and if I want to listen to softer audios, I tend 101 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:27,640 to go there, I like Gone Wild Audible, that's a pretty good one, and I know it's a part 102 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:39,880 of GWA, but GWA Stafik, I don't think there's necessarily a focus on, someone said it best, 103 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:48,720 but the reason I prefer audios is cause they tend to feel more real, porn is boring, porn 104 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:56,360 is fake, okay, as much as a girl moans and touches herself, and as much as a guy pounds 105 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:04,880 away and pounds away, who's really having an orgasm other than the guy? 106 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:16,200 I enjoy audios because they tend, because the story, the weaving is real, and whether 107 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:22,000 or not you do, whether or not you're just moaning into the mic or you're actually touching 108 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:31,960 yourself while moaning into the mic, it tends to feel more real, more intimate, cause you're 109 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:42,720 weaving this story, or you're directing your comments towards the listener, but yeah, those 110 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:53,640 would be my top three subreddits, how did I stumble upon GWA? 111 00:15:53,640 --> 00:16:06,920 Actually a friend, we were talking about how shitty 2020 has been, I had been, cause it's 112 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:16,280 not 2020 anymore, thank god, although 2021, we'll see how it turns out, right? 113 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:32,120 And I was just talking about how, you know, excuse me, what were we talking about, oh, 114 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:40,760 I know what it was, I have a thing for voices, I've always had a thing for voices, especially 115 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:53,960 deep ones, I used to stay in detention to voices like Vin Diesel or Benedict Cumberbatch 116 00:16:53,960 --> 00:17:04,400 and Sherlock, these voices just tended to catch my attention, even Tom Hiddleston, his 117 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:11,320 Loki, his voice, his infliction, the way he says things and carries himself throughout 118 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:18,400 his tone, was one of my favorite things about his character, so she tells me like, hey, 119 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:28,760 if you like voices, I got something for you, and the first audio I listened to, I wouldn't 120 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:38,960 be able to tell you, but I started listening to random ones, just the ones on the homepage, 121 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:47,720 and then I started following and finding what I liked, and yeah, that is how I stumbled 122 00:17:47,720 --> 00:18:03,400 upon GWA, what type of erotic audios will you absolutely not listen to or record yourself? 123 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:16,200 I don't do age play, I am absolutely not into age play, I tried it with an ex-partner, and 124 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:31,240 it was not for me, and I realized that when I would only try to do the age play with them, 125 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:37,800 in order to bring them pleasure, as a pleasure switch, I know that my pleasure comes from 126 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:45,120 my partner, but I should find pleasure from what we're doing as well, so age plays off 127 00:18:45,120 --> 00:19:03,040 the table, and I don't do scat play, and I don't do urine play either, not into it. 128 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:14,720 Those are the only ones that are big, hard nose, I've done in real life, and that's what 129 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:20,360 most of my audios are based on, stories of things that I have done, stories of things 130 00:19:20,360 --> 00:19:32,400 that I have found pleasure in, which again, the whole being real thing, CNC scenes, primal 131 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:43,600 scenes, excuse me, all of those tend to be things that I have done, so yeah, those are 132 00:19:43,600 --> 00:20:00,560 the big ones, and what is the, oh, the next question, what are some of the biggest mistakes 133 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:07,440 men make when it comes to sex as well as dating relationships, and what advice do you have 134 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:19,160 for men on avoiding those mistakes? Oh, yikes, this is a whole, like, this could, 135 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:31,120 this question could be in and of itself its own audio. I, we could go tangent, right, 136 00:20:31,120 --> 00:20:42,760 this Pegman 2021 type of situation, you know, like, the thing that I have found when I have 137 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:59,920 dated most men is that they tend to not communicate properly, or they tend to listen to be heard, 138 00:20:59,920 --> 00:21:05,680 and in that sense it's your response is only addressing what you want to address, not what 139 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:13,000 you and your partner are discussing. I am big on communication, I am big on consent, 140 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:22,600 I am big on speak your mind, can you tell I've been to therapy? My advice would be 141 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:30,200 to just talk, take your time to listen to your partner and what they want, don't be 142 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:39,360 afraid to say no, don't be afraid to say yes, explore things with your partner, be 143 00:21:39,360 --> 00:21:49,360 willing to, you know, 50-50 it out. One of my ex-partners had a very big issue with 144 00:21:49,360 --> 00:21:58,960 me being the boss, and I don't mean in the bedroom, literally, the company that we worked 145 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:10,440 for, I was helping run eight restaurants and he was a line cook, he had a problem with 146 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:16,400 that. I didn't, I worked my way up, I worked my ass off, I joined that company earlier 147 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:28,360 than he had, and I started the same way he did, I started as a hostess, seeding people 148 00:22:28,360 --> 00:22:41,560 and then I worked, I put in the work. So really it's just about awareness and that comfort 149 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:49,960 with your own self. That would be the two, the things that I would say, just make sure 150 00:22:49,960 --> 00:23:06,480 you're talking, make sure you're listening, yeah. Also, bedroom-wise, get used to giving. 151 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:13,160 I know a lot of people that I've spoken to when it comes to men in the bedroom, a lot 152 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:21,520 of the words that tend to be used are selfish and self-pleasure driven. And this is going 153 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:37,160 to be the end of part one. Stay tuned for part two.