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The one on the right was a friend of mine that I used to roleplay a lot with. She and I and a group of my other friends.
Then I invited the one to the left into our group and things started to fall apart.
This was how I discovered there is a certain kind of person who latches onto someone who has good friends and tries to drive a wedge between them and their friends in order to take their place in the lives of their friends.
After he joined the group, things started to get weird.
I'd sign on to do my nightly roleplaying after work and one of my friends would be unusually quiet or reluctant to chat or roleplay.
Weird at first, I thought, but as time went on more of them became reluctant and started spending less time with me and more time with the new guy.
This went on for several weeks and I started pressing my friends for information on what was going on.
Finally and after a lot of pushing one of my friends explained.
They said, the new guy had been talking about me a lot. Telling them what a bad person I am. Telling them I am a risk to their wellbeing and offering to take them under his wing to "save" them from me.
He was very convincing, and by the time I found out what was going on he had already 'rescued' nearly the entire group from me. One of them even eventually moved in with him in real life.
Then he wasted their friendships, and tossed them aside and disappeared.
Thinking back if I recall correctly I lost five friends in that ordeal.
It was during this time of my life that I began to realize that I'm not always the one to blame; that I don't have to assume that just because someone has turned a deaf ear to me, that I somehow did them wrong.
Lesson learned.","writing":"","writing_bbcode_parsed":"","pools_count":0,"title":"Three Skiltaire","deleted":"f","public":"t","mimetype":"image/jpeg","pagecount":"1","rating_id":"0","rating_name":"General","ratings":[],"submission_type_id":"1","type_name":"Picture/Pinup","guest_block":"f","friends_only":"f","comments_count":"0","views":"13","sales_description":null,"forsale":"f","digitalsales":"f","printsales":"f","digital_price":""}