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When you stare at your nest and realize it's still empty. That the many fur covered body pillows, the king sized fur blankets, and the mattress big enough to fit many griffoness, in your nest...doesn't work.\n\nbut no matter what i've done, im still alone. When i'm genuinely me...I get instantly rejected, when i'm fake, i get instantly rejected...so I wear a false smile, i laugh simply to hide my pain, and I cry myself to sleep on occasion.\n\nit is a genuine fear I always will be alone.\n\nI don't have power, status, fame, money, a body that sends the girls reeling with desire, nor do I have a personality women seem to be remotely interested in, contrary to what my friends and family tell me.\n\nregardless of this I try to be myself, my genuine self, I'm an exited, nerdy, goofball. I'm Energetic and in most topics, pretty damn honest, and I can even be vulnerable and insecure when given the chance...\n\napparently that isn't good, nor is it, liked, or wanted. I keep getting told to 'Be myself\" and to \"stop looking and someone will come along.\"\n\nthat's a load of **** so far. I be myself and get nothing but rejection, ignored, and some times insults saying i'm just a \"NICE GUY\". But then I stop looking...and suddenly the vast sea of emptiness around me swallows me up. And this makes sense, because no one IS coming along. Cause it's clear to me no one wants someone like me.\n\nAny who... I feel lonely, depressed, rejected, blah blah blah, no one actually cares cause we are humans, scourge of the planet, whine whine complain complain, I know. As humans we fake our interest for the sake of acknowledgement and recognition. those who would comment on this would tell me one of two things:\n\n\"get over it, get over yourself, deal with it, and suck it up, no one cares. etc\" Yeah heard those a million times by all the people who also are in the \"forever alone\" boat with me. Knowing our luck, we will be sinking with it too.\n\nOR\n\n\"Don't give up, you just have to keep looking, there's someone out there for you, etc.\" Doesn't actually help me feel better in any sense, cause those words almost always come from people who already have/found a partner,\n\nor partners, in my case.\n\nyeah i'm a straight polyamorous male, yet another nail in my romance coffin, that sends females running for the hills. I know.\n\nbut ya know what?!\n\nFor once...I felt like not caring what others say or think of me, and posting how I really feel.\n\nso yeah...I feel like a pile of garbage...go figure.","description_bbcode_parsed":"it sucks when the warmth you were holding turns out to be nothing more then pillows. When you stare at your nest and realize it's still empty. That the many fur covered body pillows, the king sized fur blankets, and the mattress big enough to fit many griffoness, in your nest...doesn't work.
but no matter what i've done, im still alone. When i'm genuinely me...I get instantly rejected, when i'm fake, i get instantly rejected...so I wear a false smile, i laugh simply to hide my pain, and I cry myself to sleep on occasion.
it is a genuine fear I always will be alone.
I don't have power, status, fame, money, a body that sends the girls reeling with desire, nor do I have a personality women seem to be remotely interested in, contrary to what my friends and family tell me.
regardless of this I try to be myself, my genuine self, I'm an exited, nerdy, goofball. I'm Energetic and in most topics, pretty damn honest, and I can even be vulnerable and insecure when given the chance...
apparently that isn't good, nor is it, liked, or wanted. I keep getting told to 'Be myself" and to "stop looking and someone will come along."
that's a load of **** so far. I be myself and get nothing but rejection, ignored, and some times insults saying i'm just a "NICE GUY". But then I stop looking...and suddenly the vast sea of emptiness around me swallows me up. And this makes sense, because no one IS coming along. Cause it's clear to me no one wants someone like me.
Any who... I feel lonely, depressed, rejected, blah blah blah, no one actually cares cause we are humans, scourge of the planet, whine whine complain complain, I know. As humans we fake our interest for the sake of acknowledgement and recognition. those who would comment on this would tell me one of two things:
"get over it, get over yourself, deal with it, and suck it up, no one cares. etc" Yeah heard those a million times by all the people who also are in the "forever alone" boat with me. Knowing our luck, we will be sinking with it too.
OR
"Don't give up, you just have to keep looking, there's someone out there for you, etc." Doesn't actually help me feel better in any sense, cause those words almost always come from people who already have/found a partner,
or partners, in my case.
yeah i'm a straight polyamorous male, yet another nail in my romance coffin, that sends females running for the hills. I know.
but ya know what?!
For once...I felt like not caring what others say or think of me, and posting how I really feel.
so yeah...I feel like a pile of garbage...go figure.","writing":"","writing_bbcode_parsed":"","pools_count":0,"title":"The harshness of waking up alone...","deleted":"f","public":"t","mimetype":"image/png","pagecount":"1","rating_id":"0","rating_name":"General","ratings":[],"submission_type_id":"1","type_name":"Picture/Pinup","guest_block":"t","friends_only":"f","comments_count":"0","views":"785"}